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The end (again)

June 15, 2011

Trust must come before love and love can’t survive without trust. I felt absolutely certain I could love him again. I tried to forget. I felt that I could conquer the past. But I couldn’t. And something was missing. The trust? The original love we had? I wasn’t sure, but being so unsure, standing on […]

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From Break Up Land

January 6, 2011

Something odd is happening. This break up is like none I have ever experienced before. I am sad. Sure. But I’m not broken. In the past I felt ripped apart, wide open and I wanted to fill it–as quickly as possible–with someone or something else. But not this time. And here’s the really weird part, […]

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The aftermath.

January 2, 2011

The support. The e-mails. The phone calls. The support. The e-mails. The phone calls. It has been 9 days now. During each I have remained completely composed in front of Benjamin. I have been calm, engaged and present to play with him, talk to him and just be with him. Tomorrow it’s back to school […]

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No book, wedding plans and co-habitiation.

November 8, 2010

Short north columbus wedding dress boutique Short north columbus wedding dress boutique After finishing up a photo shoot for a client in the Short North today I couldn’t help but pop into Big Rock, Little Rooster to say “hello” to the dress I’m considering. That dress is in one of these photographs. Obviously, I can’t […]

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On Miraculous Things

May 7, 2010

Our relationship has moved onto the next plateau and John Bear, by his own will, has decided to take on the daunting task of disciplining Benjamin. Having long ago earned Benjamin’s love, John is now earning his respect. And having recently decided that this is, indeed, what I want I have learned to step back […]

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Work

April 5, 2010

“This isn’t working is it?” “No, it’s not,” John answers. Working together, in the same office, just two feet away from each other had been talking it’s toll on John and I’s relationship. My boyfriend had been replaced with a co-worker and we couldn’t break the two, draw the lines, separate work from play. Starting […]

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Butterflies vs. Lead Weights

February 21, 2010

[flickr-gallery mode=”photoset” photoset=”72157617915159603″] [flickr-gallery mode=”photoset” photoset=”72157617915159603″] Once upon a time, I got married… And then my Prince Charming turned into a frog. After marriage counseling, much soul ringing and yet another really nasty fight I decided it would be better to raise my four month old son alone than in that environment. So I packed […]

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