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Out of order

May 28, 2010

The reason I have been so quiet lately has a little something to do with this… And, yes, that is a white picket fence you’re seeing. A white picket fence dividing the front yard from a perfect sidewalk that leads to a park, an elementary school and hiking trails. This house is, quite possibly, the [...]

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Tisk. Tisk.

May 24, 2010

While he was in the midst of folding towels tonight I remembered the first time John had attempted to help me with laundry. He had offered and I had agreed – reluctantly. And then, in my true defensive and self-protective fashion, I snapped something at him like, “you’re not folding them tight enough. Just let [...]

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Hello again

May 18, 2010

I think I need to re-introduce myself. I started this blog as a 28 year old with a far less wrinkles and even less of a clue on how to date as a single mom. Nearly three years later – here I am. With far more wrinkles, a giant 4 year old son and even [...]

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Name Your Fear and Win

April 30, 2010

Fear is a real bitch. And it’s been a while since I’ve addressed the unique fears that come for single moms dating. Our fears, unfortunately, tend to control our dating lives for the first year as we regain our footing. But then, if you’re like me, we slowly gain control – recognizing a pattern. The [...]

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One Year

April 28, 2010

One year ago today… When I got dressed that morning I thought about him. What should I wear? Something that doesn’t look like I’m trying and something that will still look cute at 5:45 when I leave work. It didn’t take long for me to decide on a pair of jeans, a t-shirt and a [...]

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At the start

April 13, 2010

I have been so wrapped up in my own happiness lately – with my work, with John, with Benjamin (and not necessarily in that order, fluctuates with the day or more often, the time of day) – that I have lost sight of why I started this blog in the first place. A few weeks [...]

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Single Mom Dating Tips, Part 5

March 12, 2010

Introducing Him to the Kids I know it’s been a while since I’ve offered up a around of single mom dating tips, but here is a fresh batch. The subject? Introducing or not introducing men to your children. First, a few real-life single mom dating experiences. In both cases, each single mom did what she [...]

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Bikini Wearing Waitresses

September 16, 2009

A word, if I may, about bikini wearing waitresses and other things that drive women nuts. If you are ever dating a guy and said guy walks into a bar with waitresses wearing bikinis, or a strip joint or a Hooter’s and then let’s say you get a bit upset by this. Perhaps your ex-husband [...]

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A messy business

September 13, 2009

“Are those poop bags in your pockets again?” I see the top of a bright blue plastic bag sticking out of his shorts. “I always come prepared,” he says. Always is right. John Bear is seldom without a poop bag or two sticking out of his cargo short pockets. I’m always telling him to stick [...]

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Man Park or Dog Park?

September 10, 2009

I would never compare men to dogs. Never. Nope. It’s just not my style. I love my men. Before I found John Bear many of you called me a man-hater. But now I’m a walking talking dog and man loving machine. Yesterday, inspired by your adventure stories, we hopped in the car and went to [...]

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