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Single Mom Question: We have chemistry, but…

June 10, 2011

This one is from Jen, a single mom who has all of the chemistry a girl can dream of with man who is not financially responsible. Her question in a nutshell is – “We have this amazing chemistry, but what about his financial instability? Can I overlook that? And is this the last time I […]

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The aftermath.

January 2, 2011

It has been 9 days now. During each I have remained completely composed in front of Benjamin. I have been calm, engaged and present to play with him, talk to him and just be with him. Tomorrow it’s back to school and work. To our new reality. After I write this post I’ll be writing […]

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Bikini Wearing Waitresses

September 16, 2009

A word, if I may, about bikini wearing waitresses and other things that drive women nuts. If you are ever dating a guy and said guy walks into a bar with waitresses wearing bikinis, or a strip joint or a Hooter’s and then let’s say you get a bit upset by this. Perhaps your ex-husband […]

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Such a Tease!

September 2, 2009


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The beginning.

May 10, 2009

We met at 7:30 in the morning. “So how much do you guys know about search engine optimization?” I was mingling with the crowd, getting a feel for their knowledge on the subject before I started my presentation.

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Single Mom Dating Zen: Lions & Tigers

April 23, 2009

What if there are two men? There’s the tiger who has no rules. He has traces of warmth and is even very sweet but he’s healing, refusing to feel. His hurt is palpable and it makes you angry that some young childless thing broke this perfect man for the rest of us. Didn’t she see […]

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I want to date – but I can’t.

January 11, 2009

Another video response to one of your questions. This one is from a single mom who really, really wants to get back out there, but she can’t bring herself to do it.  I hope this helps! If anyone has any questions just e-mail me at To read about my first post-divorce dating experience click […]

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What makes him so irresistible?

December 29, 2008

Just floating thoughts in my head of what makes a man sexy (to a single mom, and therefore eventually to all women because most of us will be mothers). This man, by the way, is a figment of my imagination. And while I have dated different men who possessed at least one or more of […]

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Are your still obsessed with your ex?

September 16, 2008

This is for the guys. The men who have fallen madly and crazy in love with a single mom need our help. Time and time again I get e-mails from men telling me devastating stories of how their single mom, the love of their life, is still tied to her ex emotionally. They find this out when […]

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Mr. Right Now (aka: my confession)

September 1, 2008

I never loved nobody fully, always one foot on the ground. And by protecting my heart so truly, I got lost in the sounds… I hear in my mind all of these voices. I hear in my mind all of these words. I hear in my mind all of this music. And it breaks my […]

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