I didn’t say it … this blogging bachelor did. And I 100% agree with him. Men do need to “man” up. In his post titled, “What Men SHOULD Think.”
He says:
Men, get your act together before you go pursuing a long-term relationship or marriage. Don’t tell me that you have to be with this woman right now, because you love them so much. That’s just being selfish. If you care for someone, work your ass off to create a direction and future for yourself. What are you going to offer this woman you love?
Read the rest of that one, it’s awesome. But in his posts “What Men Think When You Tell Them (Part I and Part II)” he tells women not to talk about wanting children.
Talking about your desire or lack of desire to have children. I’m sure there are men who want to talk about that right away. They may be as excited to share as you are. BUT the majority of men don’t want to hear this from anyone unless it is their wife or fiance. Only discuss this when marriage has been agreed upon.
Wife or fiance? Uh-oh. Here’s my line:”so, do you want to have a kid, ummm….2 years ago?” [click to continue…]
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