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single mom relationship

Single Moms and Dads: Dating and Blending Family Advice

June 13, 2012

I just disappeared from this great, link wide thing we call the Internet for six entire days. Typically, advice I live and die by my inbox. But not this week. Nope. With the exception of my Instagram and a few Facebook updates, ailment it was all beach and all family all week. No business. No […]

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Kissing in front of the kids (gasp).

January 24, 2012

I know I will get blasted for this one. But, viagra whatever, bring on the hate. This is reality, this is love and this is modern parenthood. We both put our children first and care about them more than anything in the world. What’s the most amazing of all is how much we have all […]

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On the other side…

January 3, 2012

I write for you. And for myself, ambulance sickness yes, and that is clearly true. This blog saves me hundreds of dollars in therapy bills, viagra approved but ultimately – I am here because of you. As for the therapy bills, it sounds strange, but if you force yourself to write out your feelings – […]

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On Prince Charming…

October 6, 2011

Benjamin and his bud Bert jump out of the car. We’ve pulled up to the most exciting place on Earth. The Eagle Creek Leadership and Challenge Center to you and I, recipe but to Benjamin and Bertie this is where Thomas and Calvin’s grandpa lives. Thomas and Calvin are quite possibly the cutest brothers you’ll […]

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Romance in the air?

September 13, 2011

I had to delete it because I wasn’t supposed to tell you what I told you. More later. xoxo The leaves are falling, story site the days are shorter, there is Halloween stuff every where, I just found an awesome vintage fur coat at a thrift store and I find myself wishing I had a […]

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July 9, 2011

The pictures sneak up on my when I least expect them. They fall out of a book I haven’t opened in years, link or peek out from underneath a folder on my mother’s desk. Why are they here? Chance, more about I’m sure. But there they are. Pictures of my ex-husband and I at our […]

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Single Mom Question: Why can’t I commit?

May 25, 2011

The sun is out today. If you live in the Midwest, health you know why this is so substantial. The sun has been hiding for weeks and in its place we have had and endless barrage of clouds and rain. Gloomy doesn’t even begin to describe it. And while yes, approved it could be much […]

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Love and rear view mirrors.

April 9, 2011

I didn’t take enough pictures. And I didn’t network enough, pharmacy or attend enough panels and I didn’t rest enough. But enough with everything I didn’t do. I did meet a new friend. A friend I have had virtually through Twitter for years. And, here as always, medicine it never ceases to amaze me at […]

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Keeping busy.

January 27, 2011

Benjamin is requesting a kitty. I want to oblige him. Even though I know we would have to name it Rebound. Still… a cute little kitten can’t hurt anyone. The last two were kidnapped by the neighbor lady, view help treat so we have plenty of extra kitten room. Maybe two? Just so they can […]

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A very good question.

January 10, 2011

Something odd is happening. This break up is like none I have ever experienced before. I am sad. Sure. But I’m not broken. In the past I felt ripped apart, pharm wide open and I wanted to fill it–as quickly as possible–with someone or something else. But not this time. And here’s the really weird […]

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