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Breaking up

Losing you has been quite the gain…

May 23, 2012

I am the luckiest girl alive for so many reasons. There were days I thought I would never, search nurse ever crawl out of my cave of uncertainty (if you need to catch up, mind seek become a Facebook fan and have a free eBook of Ms. Single Mama Uncensored). And now, although still uncertain […]

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A question about your ex.

February 18, 2012

One of our hugs leads to a kiss. When we open our eyes all three children are staring up at us. Smiles are spread across their faces. All of them, visit web beaming… “Look, about it they are kissing! Look!!! Heee heee.” They are seeing, mind for the first time, their parents absolutely and totally […]

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On healing a broken heart.

December 11, 2011

I have an apology to make to New York City. I am sorry for doubting you and jumping to conclusions after my last visit. I’m not sure what happened, ed maybe it was the hot weather (100+) and the wrong neighborhood choice (Times Square), but this time I had a completely different experience. We were […]

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The end (again)

June 15, 2011

Single mom dating advice Single mom dating advice This one is from Jen, viagra order a single mom who has all of the chemistry a girl can dream of with man who is not financially responsible. Her question in a nutshell is – “We have this amazing chemistry, mind but what about his financial instability? […]

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A line of b.s.

February 28, 2011

My mother took off with Benjamin on Monday. It is always sporadic and unplanned, treatment his mini-vacations to Grandma’s. Depends on her schedule, which varies from week to week. She’s a free spirit and always reminding me that the unplanned can be quite nice. Had I planned for a week sans Benjamin there would have […]

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Free time.

February 23, 2011

I have found myself – in the past two months –  back to 100% single motherhood. In addition to the absence of John Bear, ailment Benjamin is no longer spending one weekend a month at his father’s. I can’t get into details but can say that the decision (mine) was definitely as a last resort […]

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The best rebound I’ve ever had.

February 19, 2011

Busy is good when your life has changed so dramatically. I feel numb now. The shock has worn off and Benjamin and I are trucking along like we were before John came into our lives. I have found that taking out the trash alone, viagra warming up the car in the morning and even sleeping […]

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A new room.

February 3, 2011

Just days after he left, advice more about check I completely re-arranged my room. I had to. It’s a thing I have. Visibly wiping away the evidence, side effects the memories. This is the result. My Mom found the lamp at a thrift store, along with the poster. We’re not finished yet. I still have […]

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Your domain

January 31, 2011

Something odd is happening. This break up is like none I have ever experienced before. I am sad. Sure. But I’m not broken. In the past I felt ripped apart, pharm wide open and I wanted to fill it–as quickly as possible–with someone or something else. But not this time. And here’s the really weird […]

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Keeping busy.

January 27, 2011

Benjamin is requesting a kitty. I want to oblige him. Even though I know we would have to name it Rebound. Still… a cute little kitten can’t hurt anyone. The last two were kidnapped by the neighbor lady, view help treat so we have plenty of extra kitten room. Maybe two? Just so they can […]

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