A gift for you.

by mssinglemama on March 27, 2012

The secrets behind the blog and the perfect guide book for any dating single mom.


The blog is just the beginning.

In Ms. Single Mama Uncensored the secrets are out. In the book you’ll find out…

  • How my ex-husband and I met and fell in love
  • More about the allusive Biker, my first single mom romance
  • Read the story about my first single mom crush
  • What really happened with Mr. Man
  • Why my fling with Cabin Man was so short lived
  • Details on how to have a happy and healthy sex life as a single mom along with tips on dating including touchy issues like when to tell him about your single mom status and when to introduce him to the kids.


What people are saying about Ms. Single Mama Uncensored (the eBook):

“There’s no difference to me between this book and something on a shelf at Barnes & Noble. I bought it and have been devouring in big gulps for the past few nights. Thank you!” – Jen C. of Follow Your Bliss

“OMG…I can NOT stop reading your book. You’re an INCREDIBLE writer. I’ve loved your blog all along – but your book is truly, truly incredible. I am healing so much in so many ways just by reading your experiences and knowing, once and for all, that I too will be ok. Thanks for putting your heart on your sleeve for the rest of us single moms!!!” – Ericka Sevilla, on Facebook.

“For anyone who is on the fence on whether or not to buy this book…DO IT! I am also a single mother and since i am only 21 i do not have any single mama friends to discuss the different experiences and emotions that we go through with, but reading this book has helped me in SO many ways! Everything that Alaina talks about while telling her story is something that any single mother can relate to. For me at least, it seemed like this book was custom made for me. I believe that after you read her whole uncensored story that those of you who haven’t really started to heal can finally begin the process, and those of you who aren’t single mama’s can truly appreciate what a single mama has to go through to be also be a GREAT mama! Thank you so much Alaina for sharing this story with us! I obviously LOVED it!” – Chelsea

A true page-turner this book pulls no punches. Ms. Sheer recounts stories from her personal life with humbling candor, drawing readers in with all the confidence of a best friend. Central to the theme of this book is Ms. Sheer’s emphatic advice to each and every single mom searching for Mr. Right. That advice? Love yourself. We’ve all heard it, plenty of us have brushed it off, but none of us have had it phrased quite so convincingly as Alaina Sheer has done in this book.” – Jennifer Parker, Boise Examiner

“On the outside, you seem so put together: smart, beautiful, successful, confident, and (now) in love. You are, indeed, all of those things, but the e-book also shows a very the human side of you: an everyday, normal woman, with the same obstacles, mistakes made, lessons learned, worries, and disappointments. Despite what you have gone through, you remained strong for yourself and Benjamin–and in telling your story, you also give other single moms, dads, and everyone else HOPE. That is truly inspiring.” – Jen C.

“Old posts are mixed with new stories and her insights and revelations fill the gaps, creating a smooth, easy to follow glimpse into her world. Sheer invites you into her world, and while I am not single nor a mother, the underlying themes of trusting and believing in yourself rang true to my heart. Ms Single Mama finds a way to balance romantic optimism with the realities of daily life, all the while ensuring the needs of her son Benjamin are met. As both Benjamin and her confidence grow, she slowly heals from her previously chaotic life.” – Amanda, Stack of Spines

I believe you can do anything you put your mind toward. In fact, I would argue that you can completely turn your life around if you really wanted a particular outcome.


All you have to do is fan Ms. Single Mama on Facebook. Just click that button up there.

And winners of Job Jenny’s one hour of career consulting are: 

Bella and Hannah F. (You’ve both been emailed. Congratulations!).

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{ 24 comments… read them below or add one }

Anna March 27, 2012 at 8:42 pm

Your book is amazing! I am already on p40. I wish I had this in my hands 3 years ago when I was newly divorced with a 5 and 3 year old. I am getting there, and hope to get there one day. Thank you!!!


Alanna March 27, 2012 at 10:23 pm

Wow! Thanks so much for doing this! I am going through a divorce right now and am a newly single mom. I have so many thoughts going through my head. I know I will appreciate your words and experiences. You seem to be really down to earth and I am grateful for finding your blog!!
I did have a thought- going back to your blog entry with the list of “must haves” for the next relationship you are in, do you have all the numbered items on it in your new relationship? (I assume yes, since you appear to be blissfully happy, but just thought I would ask!)
Thanks for being a source of hope in that things will get better. =)


mssinglemama March 28, 2012 at 8:36 pm


Yes!! I just re-read my Must Have man list (http://mssinglemama.com/2009/12/17/the-must-have-man-list/) and yes, he meets every one of those requirements. There are a few more I should add… including:

1. You must feel lightning like sparks when you are together. ; ) No compromising, honeys. He is out there.

Thanks for downloading – hope you love it!


Alanna March 30, 2012 at 9:11 pm

Love it! And love that you have found that!!


Hannah Frances March 27, 2012 at 10:44 pm

Thank you so much!!


ChrisR March 27, 2012 at 11:56 pm

Thanks so much! I can’t wait to get started. I know I’m one of the few single dad’s that post but I am excited to ready and learn. Over the past several months I have had the pleasure of getting great tips and just learning about being a single parent.


Melissa March 28, 2012 at 6:17 pm

So I downloaded the book this morning and I am on page 83! Holy cow…I can’t stop reading!! I LOVE IT!!!!


Mark March 31, 2012 at 2:03 pm

Just download id 😉 .. tnx 🙂


Jane A April 2, 2012 at 1:34 am

Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and the book! I downloaded it a few days ago and finished it this morning. There were many times when I was nodding my head thinking “uh huh, uh huh, exactly – that’s exactly how I feel!” or thinking “thank goodness it’s not just me that feel like, oh, so this stage is normal.” I’m 4 months as a single Mum to 3 lovely kids (all under 7) and only just starting to find my feet with this new life I’m building for the kids and I. Finding your blog has been wonderful – thank you, thank you!
Love Jane


Dan April 6, 2012 at 1:46 pm

Hey Single Mama, I’ve spent about an hour now clicking around and reading the first thirty or so pages of your ebook. Happily divorced now four years a role playing bass in a local band thrust me into journaling my emotions then crafting lyrics. It was tremendous outlet that surely preserved my sanity. In fact I had no concept of the worth of my journal until my new pup litterally at it! I’m curious, how often do you get men inquiring/commenting? Dan


Jennifer April 10, 2012 at 12:59 pm

Hey how can I download the book ?


Peanut's Mommy April 12, 2012 at 12:07 am

Thank you so much for this wonderful gift. Over the past couple years you have become an inspiration to me. You gave me strength when I was afraid to separate from my ex-husband, when I started blogging, when I went through my divorce and when i started the unfamiliar territory of dating again.


Pinay WAHM Blogger April 29, 2012 at 1:09 am

Cool! Would love to read your book, too! Have you considered writing more books in the future? A novel, perhaps?


mssinglemama May 2, 2012 at 1:24 pm

I would love to… it’s a dream of mine – as soon as I have time.


Michelle May 3, 2012 at 11:43 pm

Love this blog. Very good and easy to read and it isn’t boring at all. Thank you. I am seperated and in the process of divorcing and reading this has really given me hope.


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Purple Shuttle August 19, 2012 at 12:11 am

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Sarah October 17, 2013 at 3:40 pm

I would love to read the book! I liked your facebook page but I am not sure how to get the book!


Laura March 6, 2014 at 3:42 pm

I can’t figure out how to download this book, it doesn’t work


Andrea March 24, 2015 at 4:27 pm

Me either.


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