A gift for you.

by mssinglemama on March 27, 2012

Years ago I poured my heart into an eBook meant to accompany this blog and to be the perfect primer for any new single moms starting to date. The result, Ms. Single Mama Uncensored, is over 100 pages of juicy post-divorce dating goodness. All of the secrets I could never publish here are there, in grueling play-by-play detail.

I spent two months straight writing it, but could have spent another two years. I discovered that there were stories within stories. And so many thoughts and ideas about dating as a single mom that I wanted to share. There is so much more to it than any one can imagine, isn’t there?

The book takes you through my first post-divorce relationship, my first hard core crush and then my first few relationships. And now, as a civic duty to single mamas everywhere – I want to give it to you all for free.

All you have to do is fan Ms. Single Mama on Facebook. Just click that button up there.

And winners of Job Jenny’s one hour of career consulting are: 

Bella and Hannah F. (You’ve both been emailed. Congratulations!).

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Anna March 27, 2012 at 8:42 pm

Your book is amazing! I am already on p40. I wish I had this in my hands 3 years ago when I was newly divorced with a 5 and 3 year old. I am getting there, and hope to get there one day. Thank you!!!


Alanna March 27, 2012 at 10:23 pm

Wow! Thanks so much for doing this! I am going through a divorce right now and am a newly single mom. I have so many thoughts going through my head. I know I will appreciate your words and experiences. You seem to be really down to earth and I am grateful for finding your blog!!
I did have a thought- going back to your blog entry with the list of “must haves” for the next relationship you are in, do you have all the numbered items on it in your new relationship? (I assume yes, since you appear to be blissfully happy, but just thought I would ask!)
Thanks for being a source of hope in that things will get better. =)


mssinglemama March 28, 2012 at 8:36 pm


Yes!! I just re-read my Must Have man list (http://mssinglemama.com/2009/12/17/the-must-have-man-list/) and yes, he meets every one of those requirements. There are a few more I should add… including:

1. You must feel lightning like sparks when you are together. ; ) No compromising, honeys. He is out there.

Thanks for downloading – hope you love it!


Alanna March 30, 2012 at 9:11 pm

Love it! And love that you have found that!!


Hannah Frances March 27, 2012 at 10:44 pm

Thank you so much!!


ChrisR March 27, 2012 at 11:56 pm

Thanks so much! I can’t wait to get started. I know I’m one of the few single dad’s that post but I am excited to ready and learn. Over the past several months I have had the pleasure of getting great tips and just learning about being a single parent.


Melissa March 28, 2012 at 6:17 pm

So I downloaded the book this morning and I am on page 83! Holy cow…I can’t stop reading!! I LOVE IT!!!!


Mark March 31, 2012 at 2:03 pm

Just download id ;) .. tnx :)


Jane A April 2, 2012 at 1:34 am

Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and the book! I downloaded it a few days ago and finished it this morning. There were many times when I was nodding my head thinking “uh huh, uh huh, exactly – that’s exactly how I feel!” or thinking “thank goodness it’s not just me that feel like, oh, so this stage is normal.” I’m 4 months as a single Mum to 3 lovely kids (all under 7) and only just starting to find my feet with this new life I’m building for the kids and I. Finding your blog has been wonderful – thank you, thank you!
Love Jane


Dan April 6, 2012 at 1:46 pm

Hey Single Mama, I’ve spent about an hour now clicking around and reading the first thirty or so pages of your ebook. Happily divorced now four years a role playing bass in a local band thrust me into journaling my emotions then crafting lyrics. It was tremendous outlet that surely preserved my sanity. In fact I had no concept of the worth of my journal until my new pup litterally at it! I’m curious, how often do you get men inquiring/commenting? Dan


Jennifer April 10, 2012 at 12:59 pm

Hey how can I download the book ?


Peanut's Mommy April 12, 2012 at 12:07 am

Thank you so much for this wonderful gift. Over the past couple years you have become an inspiration to me. You gave me strength when I was afraid to separate from my ex-husband, when I started blogging, when I went through my divorce and when i started the unfamiliar territory of dating again.


Pinay WAHM Blogger April 29, 2012 at 1:09 am

Cool! Would love to read your book, too! Have you considered writing more books in the future? A novel, perhaps?


mssinglemama May 2, 2012 at 1:24 pm

I would love to… it’s a dream of mine – as soon as I have time.


Michelle May 3, 2012 at 11:43 pm

Love this blog. Very good and easy to read and it isn’t boring at all. Thank you. I am seperated and in the process of divorcing and reading this has really given me hope.


bitpower June 2, 2012 at 11:05 pm

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Purple Shuttle August 19, 2012 at 12:11 am

Well first of all thanks for this nice post. I would really love to read this book.


shoukhin October 8, 2012 at 1:47 pm

I really enjoy this post. Thanks for sharing


tusher October 11, 2012 at 12:06 pm

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Sarah October 17, 2013 at 3:40 pm

I would love to read the book! I liked your facebook page but I am not sure how to get the book!


Laura March 6, 2014 at 3:42 pm

I can’t figure out how to download this book, it doesn’t work


Andrea March 24, 2015 at 4:27 pm

Me either.


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