Comments on: Inside the Mind of a Single Mom http://mssinglemama.com/2009/09/06/inside-the-mind-of-a-single-mom/ Single Mom Dating, Love, and Life Advice Sat, 20 Mar 2010 23:48:20 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: arscuore http://mssinglemama.com/2009/09/06/inside-the-mind-of-a-single-mom/#comment-12644 arscuore Tue, 08 Sep 2009 00:21:12 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=4498#comment-12644 Loved it. I think you alluded to it, but guys also have to be flexible in scheduling dates (and be open to living-room dates!). School nights don't work for most moms. Loved it. I think you alluded to it, but guys also have to be flexible in scheduling dates (and be open to living-room dates!). School nights don’t work for most moms.

]]> By: Ms. Single Mama http://mssinglemama.com/2009/09/06/inside-the-mind-of-a-single-mom/#comment-12642 Ms. Single Mama Mon, 07 Sep 2009 18:45:46 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=4498#comment-12642 Totally agree. This is something I read about a lot out there - men complaining about being #2. I'm sorry, but if any "man" complains about being second to a child - than he is a child himself. Kids first. Period. And that is universal. Totally agree.

This is something I read about a lot out there – men complaining about being #2. I’m sorry, but if any “man” complains about being second to a child – than he is a child himself.

Kids first. Period. And that is universal.

]]> By: Speedgirl http://mssinglemama.com/2009/09/06/inside-the-mind-of-a-single-mom/#comment-12641 Speedgirl Mon, 07 Sep 2009 16:00:13 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=4498#comment-12641 Great article Alaina! As I read, I was looking for the section on realizing that you, the man, do not come first in her life. I think a lot of men are used to being the focus of a woman's attention. That isn't the case when dating a single mom. A sick chid will trump a romantic dinner for two. A ballet recital is more important than concert tickets to her favorite band. A man needs to know that this does not mean a single mom does not adore him - it is just a fact that her children will always come first. What do you think? Great article Alaina!
As I read, I was looking for the section on realizing that you, the man, do not come first in her life. I think a lot of men are used to being the focus of a woman’s attention. That isn’t the case when dating a single mom. A sick chid will trump a romantic dinner for two. A ballet recital is more important than concert tickets to her favorite band. A man needs to know that this does not mean a single mom does not adore him – it is just a fact that her children will always come first.
What do you think?

]]> By: Nate Rivers http://mssinglemama.com/2009/09/06/inside-the-mind-of-a-single-mom/#comment-12639 Nate Rivers Mon, 07 Sep 2009 03:36:10 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=4498#comment-12639 I think you're article helped dis spell some myths that guys have about dating a single mom... the one for me that I worry about when meeting a woman with a kid is the ex factor. I have dated a few women who it turned out... were not over their exes.. but like you're saying you just need to feel it out... they aren't all like that... I think you’re article helped dis spell some myths that guys have about dating a single mom… the one for me that I worry about when meeting a woman with a kid is the ex factor. I have dated a few women who it turned out… were not over their exes.. but like you’re saying you just need to feel it out… they aren’t all like that…

]]> By: Alessandra http://mssinglemama.com/2009/09/06/inside-the-mind-of-a-single-mom/#comment-12637 Alessandra Sun, 06 Sep 2009 23:08:10 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=4498#comment-12637 I just loved your article. Congrats. I do feel that some men are so afraid of dating and committing, specially when it comes to single moms. I just loved your article. Congrats.
I do feel that some men are so afraid of dating and committing, specially when it comes to single moms.

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