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By: ashlea

ashlea — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 01:35:22 +0000

I DO NOT want more kids and I actually feel like that limits my dating options even more than being a single mom. My kids are 6 and 4. We’re a bargain because most of the heavy lifting and grunt work is already done and behind us! I think there are a lot of men who don’t mind that I have two children….as long as I’ll have one more with them. No way.

By: Charis

Charis — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 15:05:07 +0000

My daughter is almost 17 months old. Her father hasn’t been involved and doesn’t provide any support whatsoever. Going through this whole – raising a kid alone-thing…I’d be very hesitant to have another. But I think that if I ever get married, it’d be really nice to experience having a child with someone who loves and supports you. And someone who will HELP YOU with yoru child!!

By: Meg

Meg — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 03:30:19 +0000

Twins are genetically determined by the mother. Believe me. MY family is the crazy fertile side (I have 5 brothers and sisters, only 2 of which were planned; my parents believed in “natural family planning”) I have one daughter who is 21 months, and my husband and I have decided to wait at least another year to start trying again. Although, I’d have to say, I wouldn’t be unhappy if she were an only child; she’s totally easy to manage *most days!* But I agree: newborns are hard work. And two of them at once?! I know I’d have at least one mental breakdown. But, you’d love them. And that makes all the hard work in the world worth it!

By: Savored Life

Savored Life — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 02:25:13 +0000

Okay…I am so behind…(read: my Google Reader has about 300 unread entries. Shame.On.Me.) I just start reading here and…"pillowtalk, babies…" Huge smile across my face! Congratulations on your *happiness*. (I know I am late… ) You deserve EVERY ounce of it!

::back to my reading…::

By: Erin

Erin — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 18:16:15 +0000

I have twin boys who are now 18 months old. When they were born, my oldest son was 16 months old. When the twins were three months old, I found out that my ex got another woman pregnant. We were divorced six months later. BELIEVE ME, if I can survive raising these three on my own, you will do just fine! There were moments when I thought I'd pull my hair out (when they got sick), but it really is beautiful and rewarding. Now that they are a little older, it is wonderful! Truly, a great 2 for 1 deal!

By: amy

amy — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 03:55:26 +0000

As a fellow mom of twin girls I so agree Watching my daughters grow up and be each others best friend and ally is so wonderful. Best of friends. Never get any of that "Mom, I am bored!" stuff as their best friend is always there. They were the easiest of babies too, I think as they had each other.

By: Joelle

Joelle — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 20:28:43 +0000

As someone who has been trying to get pregnant for 3 years, and spent lots of money on fertility treatments, I would welcome twins. So yes…i think it would be "just your luck" to welcome 2 beautiful children at the same time. A lot of people don't just get pregnant on the first try, and struggle with infertility for years.

But also, like everyone else is saying, it has to be that twins run in your family, on your mom's side.

By: Apples

Apples — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 19:39:41 +0000

Here is what I thought to be true about the topic too btw I could be wrong but… The older you are the higher chance you have of having fraternal twins but fraternal twins can only "run in the family" on the mothers side because it has to do with hyper ovulation…. But Identical twins are random.

By: littlemansmom

littlemansmom — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 16:50:54 +0000

All I can say is awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww….