Comments on: Single and Fabulous (?)

By: SANTANA WALLACE

SANTANA WALLACE — Wed, 07 Dec 2011 15:57:01 +0000

First I want to say… Early Christmas present for me finding this blog! I love it… and cant wait to fall in love with it! Secondly, You are as FABULOUS as you wanna be and only you determine the ripper scale that you wanna come flying off of! I’m 10 weeks away from becoming a mommy, and I love that you said it feels like you have a little roommate. Reading that line made my whole face light up and my heart fill up. After being single for 2 years, in an off and on sex relationship with my ex of 5 years, that kind of line is what I imagine. I imagine a roommate that I never grow tired of and a LOVE that is unimaginable! I can hardly wait! You seem as FABULOUS AS THEY COME SOUL SISTER… and I cant wait to keep reading and spying in on your life! Good luck at the photo shoot… on the way there grab a new Mac Donalds peppermint coffee and some pink lipgloss and nothing could interfere!

By: M!SS Natalie

M!SS Natalie — Tue, 22 Feb 2011 03:51:21 +0000

As if I hadn’t already been so grateful to find your blog and at such perfect timing, I find this one!! I too will be 30 this year, and once again, 100% single, and battling the forehead lines (contemplating bangs or botox.) And then with the SATC reference!! LOVE IT!!

By: Happily Ever After? | My-sonoline

Happily Ever After? | My-sonoline — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 05:28:57 +0000

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By: Happily Ever After? | My-sonoline

Happily Ever After? | My-sonoline — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 05:28:57 +0000

[...] are remaining single, with very good reason. They are just fine, completely happy on their own. Exactly as I was when I met John. Click here to cancel [...]

By: Happily Ever After?

Happily Ever After? — Tue, 30 Mar 2010 02:03:16 +0000

[...] are remaining single, with very good reason. They are just fine, completely happy on their own. Exactly as I was when I met [...]

By: Single Moms Believe

Single Moms Believe — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 01:29:03 +0000

[...] I believed I would finally be content as a single mom. And I was. [...]

By: Jasperblu

Jasperblu — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 14:45:41 +0000

P.S. I meant to say CONGRATS on quitting smoking btw. I quit when I got pregnant w/ Dexy almost 4 years ago, but picked up again here and there after she was born. I can honestly say it's been more than 2 years now since I've smoked even ONE ciggie, and even though I do still miss smoking on occasion (especially if I have a drink, or a hot cup of coffee early in the morning), I'm really glad my daughter will have a mommy who is a NON-smoker. I'm sure Benjamin will be proud to know later that his mommy is a non-smoker too.

By: PT-LawMom

PT-LawMom — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 05:44:22 +0000

I'll chime in agreeing that you are fabulous. And so am I, damn it. And I also love my job (except this weekend when I have to work on vacation – grr!). But where are all the men, I ask? What's wrong with my Match profile that is driving them all away? Then I remember what my Divorce recovery group therapists taught us. Have a list of what the fabulous single you is looking for. The top 5-10 "Must Haves". If someone doesn't meet those, run. Set your boundaries early and often. It's not a bad thing – it is better for you AND for them! The therapist said, "Do you really need three dates with an alcoholic to realize that they have a problem and that you can't keep dating them because that's on your dealbreaker list?" Hmm, my ex-husband was emotionally abusive. My boyfriend after the divorce had anger issues but I disregarded those. It wasn't until he made me feel unloved that I broke up with him, even though he had been extremely angry towards me, going so far as almost physical abuse. Okay, this went off on a tangent (blame the wine). Point is, you are fabulous, the right man is worth the wait, and you should enjoy yourself!

By: Helen

Helen — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 21:17:54 +0000

I agree… you're fabulous! Unlike a lot of women who are in unhappy relationships but terrified of being on their own – you're LIVING. I'm sure a lot of other women here can identify with that dreaded feeling, when you return home each night, that you're going to have to "deal" with a husband or SO you're terribly unhappy with. Much better to be single, happy, peaceful, prosperous, and still get to carry that hope that Mr. Amazing could be right around the corner – instead of feeling like you're stuck with Mr. Better-Than-Nothing.

By: littlemansmom

littlemansmom — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 19:22:01 +0000

….and you ARE fabulous…and sexy….and so what if you are single…you still ROCK! I started my single mommyhood just before I hit 30….and I've never made a better decision in my life!