Comments on: My dream man. http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/ Single Mom Dating, Love, and Life Advice Fri, 19 Mar 2010 20:14:09 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Famous last words « Li’l CyndiLu Who? http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/#comment-10141 Famous last words « Li’l CyndiLu Who? Mon, 08 Jun 2009 03:13:39 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=2701#comment-10141 [...] Famous last words By lilcyndiluwho Eleven weeks ago, Ms. Single Mama posed the question “What are you looking for in an ideal mate?” [...] [...] Famous last words By lilcyndiluwho Eleven weeks ago, Ms. Single Mama posed the question “What are you looking for in an ideal mate?” [...]

]]> By: gat14 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/#comment-9414 gat14 Tue, 12 May 2009 14:35:24 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=2701#comment-9414 a man who treats me right, and never dating a dog. please join our blog and share your thoughts. <a href="http://www.dontdateadog.com" target="_blank">www.dontdateadog.com</a> a man who treats me right, and never dating a dog.
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]]> By: Carissa http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/#comment-7603 Carissa Thu, 19 Mar 2009 02:01:23 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=2701#comment-7603 What's amazing to me is you desire exactly what a man desires for his partner to see in him. I have spoken to many men and they all care more about respect and admiration than love and affection. It just speaks to the core of who they are the way the latter speaks to women. What's amazing to me is you desire exactly what a man desires for his partner to see in him. I have spoken to many men and they all care more about respect and admiration than love and affection. It just speaks to the core of who they are the way the latter speaks to women.

]]> By: michelle http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/#comment-7580 michelle Wed, 18 Mar 2009 05:18:48 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=2701#comment-7580 I'm at a loss here because I found my ideal mate- he had every quality I ever wanted on paper, right down to slow danced w/ my mom at a bar/concert. But it still didn't work out. To have your picture of a perfect mate rocked like that is big. It's been over a year and I'm still wondering what I actually want. I could take everything that he was and add in what he wasn't but it's still not perfect. I hope to discover what ideal is for me as I go along because from experience, I know, what you dream of isn't always perfect. I'm at a loss here because I found my ideal mate- he had every quality I ever wanted on paper, right down to slow danced w/ my mom at a bar/concert. But it still didn't work out. To have your picture of a perfect mate rocked like that is big. It's been over a year and I'm still wondering what I actually want. I could take everything that he was and add in what he wasn't but it's still not perfect. I hope to discover what ideal is for me as I go along because from experience, I know, what you dream of isn't always perfect.

]]> By: Tishia_Lee http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/#comment-7573 Tishia_Lee Tue, 17 Mar 2009 21:13:21 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=2701#comment-7573 Honesty is huge right along with communication. I have to have a man that doesn't pull away when something is going on his life (or mine) but will instead be able to communicate with me about how he's feeling. Of course I need a man that will love my son like he was his own. Someone that supports me in my desires and dreams. Someone that I respect and he respects me back. My list goes on and on. Honesty is huge right along with communication. I have to have a man that doesn't pull away when something is going on his life (or mine) but will instead be able to communicate with me about how he's feeling. Of course I need a man that will love my son like he was his own. Someone that supports me in my desires and dreams. Someone that I respect and he respects me back. My list goes on and on.

]]> By: online dating http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/#comment-7572 online dating Tue, 17 Mar 2009 18:45:59 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=2701#comment-7572 Great question there..i would need a man i can respect. We must share the same beliefs and priorities in life. Someone i can care for. Great question there..i would need a man i can respect. We must share the same beliefs and priorities in life. Someone i can care for.

]]> By: lisette http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/#comment-7568 lisette Tue, 17 Mar 2009 15:53:29 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=2701#comment-7568 I am a lurker usually too. great response about being "awake to life". On another note, please be careful about living room dates with someone you don't know that well--I know it isave money and is just a lot easier when you are a single mom but there is a huge risk involved unless you have known someone for quite awhile. I'd also advise that if you are having someone to your home for the first time, make a plan with a friend before hand that they will call you later in the evening (say around the time you expect the guy to be gone or leaving) and check in, even set up a code "question" they can ask you to make sure all is ok. Believe me I understand the complicated issues involved in dating when you are a single parent but safety is first--most especially since your precious little one is also home with you. As you might be able to tell--I am inn the law enforcement field ao I can't help but think this way based on the things I have witnessed on my job. Totally love your blog though! I am a lurker usually too. great response about being "awake to life". On another note, please be careful about living room dates with someone you don't know that well–I know it isave money and is just a lot easier when you are a single mom but there is a huge risk involved unless you have known someone for quite awhile. I'd also advise that if you are having someone to your home for the first time, make a plan with a friend before hand that they will call you later in the evening (say around the time you expect the guy to be gone or leaving) and check in, even set up a code "question" they can ask you to make sure all is ok. Believe me I understand the complicated issues involved in dating when you are a single parent but safety is first–most especially since your precious little one is also home with you. As you might be able to tell–I am inn the law enforcement field ao I can't help but think this way based on the things I have witnessed on my job. Totally love your blog though!

]]> By: rhonda http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/#comment-7564 rhonda Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:02:51 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=2701#comment-7564 Someone who continually surprises me with how great they are. I mean, really...just makes me look up and go, wow. The wowing would also include him embracing my already made family. And the wowing be real, of course, not some phony disguise, but his real genuine heart, just making me say wow. I do believe that "wow" men really do exist. Someone who continually surprises me with how great they are. I mean, really…just makes me look up and go, wow. The wowing would also include him embracing my already made family. And the wowing be real, of course, not some phony disguise, but his real genuine heart, just making me say wow.

I do believe that "wow" men really do exist.

]]> By: christine http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/#comment-7558 christine Tue, 17 Mar 2009 00:03:25 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=2701#comment-7558 you are so not alone there. you are so not alone there.

]]> By: meg http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/15/my-dream-man/#comment-7555 meg Mon, 16 Mar 2009 18:51:07 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=2701#comment-7555 I'm a newly single mama so I think I'm still on the "I don't need a man" kick. I can't even think of one thing because of my anger towards my ex. I'm a newly single mama so I think I'm still on the "I don't need a man" kick. I can't even think of one thing because of my anger towards my ex.

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