Comments on: The Rabbit Hole http://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/ Single Mom Dating? Real advice from a real single mom. Thu, 24 May 2012 06:03:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: A cramp in my style… | better-dating.orghttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/#comment-4313 A cramp in my style… | better-dating.org Sat, 08 Nov 2008 11:39:35 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=1631#comment-4313 [...] severe pain from this nasty whatever it is. My mother is here, along with her boyfriend, Larry, and Mr. Man. They all came up last night for our big election night out, long planned ahead of time - me [...] [...] severe pain from this nasty whatever it is. My mother is here, along with her boyfriend, Larry, and Mr. Man. They all came up last night for our big election night out, long planned ahead of time – me [...]

]]> By: KEhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/#comment-4276 KE Thu, 06 Nov 2008 17:36:28 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=1631#comment-4276 I understand that these gestures are huge pluses for actually anybody.....That's why these services are available for hire, heck, you can even buy sexual favors for that matter. Get a maid for these services, but hang with somebody that lifts your spirit, not your garbage. As long as he does that, too - good! Aim higher! I understand that these gestures are huge pluses for actually anybody…..That’s why these services are available for hire, heck, you can even buy sexual favors for that matter.
Get a maid for these services, but hang with somebody that lifts your spirit, not your garbage. As long as he does that, too – good!
Aim higher!

]]> By: Zandriahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/#comment-4275 Zandria Thu, 06 Nov 2008 17:33:18 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=1631#comment-4275 I love that scenario with him taking out the garbage -- just basically saying, "I'm going to get it." I had a similar experience with a guy I'm dating. He was going into work today later than usual, so last night he said, "I'll drive you to work in the morning." I said, "Oh, no, that's okay. It's out of your way. You can drop me off at the Metro if you want --" "No," he said. "I'm taking you." So I shut up and stopped fighting. :) I love that scenario with him taking out the garbage — just basically saying, “I’m going to get it.”

I had a similar experience with a guy I’m dating. He was going into work today later than usual, so last night he said, “I’ll drive you to work in the morning.”

I said, “Oh, no, that’s okay. It’s out of your way. You can drop me off at the Metro if you want –”

“No,” he said. “I’m taking you.”

So I shut up and stopped fighting. :)

]]> By: A cramp in my style…http://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/#comment-4271 A cramp in my style… Thu, 06 Nov 2008 14:50:58 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=1631#comment-4271 [...] The Rabbit Hole [...] [...] The Rabbit Hole [...]

]]> By: mssinglemamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/#comment-4248 mssinglemama Tue, 04 Nov 2008 21:58:25 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=1631#comment-4248 KE - actually, this is just the tip of the iceberg, this post is just one example but I think small gestures like these actually stack up to equal a lot. He actually does wash dishes, cooks and does laundry. All HUGE pluses for a single mom - believe me. There's much more to this story so I guess you'll all just have to trust me on this one - but I will be clarifying more in the future. KE – actually, this is just the tip of the iceberg, this post is just one example but I think small gestures like these actually stack up to equal a lot.

He actually does wash dishes, cooks and does laundry. All HUGE pluses for a single mom – believe me.

There’s much more to this story so I guess you’ll all just have to trust me on this one – but I will be clarifying more in the future.

]]> By: KEhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/#comment-4246 KE Tue, 04 Nov 2008 18:53:04 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=1631#comment-4246 I am surprised about all this praise. How low can you go with you expectations? Just because he takes out the garbage, doesn't make him "THE MAN", it only makes him the-garbage-man! Aim for more and do not get swiped off your feet by easy to impress tactics. Does he wash dishes, too? That would fall under the same "look at me" strategy/category! I am surprised about all this praise. How low can you go with you expectations? Just because he takes out the garbage, doesn’t make him “THE MAN”, it only makes him the-garbage-man! Aim for more and do not get swiped off your feet by easy to impress tactics. Does he wash dishes, too? That would fall under the same “look at me” strategy/category!

]]> By: littlemansmomhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/#comment-4245 littlemansmom Tue, 04 Nov 2008 16:08:04 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=1631#comment-4245 I'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooo excited for you!!!!!!!!!!!!! Fall lady...fall! (just put that parachute on for a 'sence' of security...but fall deep... :) I’m sooooooooooooooooooooooooo excited for you!!!!!!!!!!!!! Fall lady…fall! (just put that parachute on for a ‘sence’ of security…but fall deep… :)

]]> By: mssinglemamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/#comment-4243 mssinglemama Tue, 04 Nov 2008 08:59:12 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=1631#comment-4243 Your words mean so much right now... and you're right - he IS a good one and there are still good ones left. Actually, he has quite a few friends. : ) April - no, not cabin man. You're the second person to ask! But, nope... not him. Your words mean so much right now… and you’re right – he IS a good one and there are still good ones left. Actually, he has quite a few friends. : )

April – no, not cabin man. You’re the second person to ask! But, nope… not him.

]]> By: Aprilhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/#comment-4233 April Tue, 04 Nov 2008 03:12:44 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=1631#comment-4233 Aw, man! I had to miss some entries. Is this Cabin guy? Aw, man! I had to miss some entries. Is this Cabin guy?

]]> By: Thttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/11/02/the-rabbit-hole/#comment-4229 T Mon, 03 Nov 2008 22:22:05 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=1631#comment-4229 Yes girl. Let it bloom. Nurture it , care for it and be patient with it. You may be pleasantly surprised. Still, its nice to have someone see you right through that armor, isn't it? He sounds wonderful. We'll all cheering for you! Yes girl. Let it bloom.

Nurture it , care for it and be patient with it. You may be pleasantly surprised.

Still, its nice to have someone see you right through that armor, isn’t it?

He sounds wonderful. We’ll all cheering for you!

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