From the monthly archives:

October 2008

A kink in the plans…

October 20, 2008

Can dating single moms really fall in love? This weekend a man held my eyes with his and now I’m wondering – can I let myself fall? Am I even able to let go of the happiness I feel as a single mom?

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Go give this guy a virtual hug.

October 17, 2008

Jim, Depot Dad, is recovering from major surgery to treat his skin cancer. He needs all of the well wishes he can get. If you don’t know Jim, he’s a single father of two beautiful children out in California and a very dear friend. Here’s the video of Jim, Morgan and I in San Francisco. [...]

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I just got robbed…

October 16, 2008

of my words. It’s inconsequential. It really doesn’t matter. But, I’m calling foul anyway. Last summer Real Simple magazine interviewed me on How to Ask a Man Out. Today I picked up the issue I’ve been waiting to read for months only to find my exact words attributed to someone else! You know them, I’ve [...]

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How Do I Get Over My Ex?

October 15, 2008

Ask and you shall receive. Here’s the first question. A few days ago I discovered askejean.com and was inspired (but she answered her questions in less than one minute). Bear with me… because this shit ain’t easy. Related posts: The Rebound Year Should I leave my husband? Single Mom Dating Advice How to Get Over [...]

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Do something.

October 14, 2008

It’s Blog Action Day - so take action. It could be as simple as spreading the word about a worthy cause or making your kids laugh (something we should all try to do every day). This year’s theme is poverty. An old classmate and trusted friend wrote to me about the Grameen Foundation recently and asked [...]

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The man I should have married.

October 13, 2008

We all have one.  The man we let go… and shouldn’t have.  Mine is in South Korea. He moved there after we broke up and hasn’t come back since, aside from a few random visits. Once we met in Amsterdam – both of us are avid travelers – and once we met in Cleveland when [...]

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Sextards and Wankers.

October 12, 2008

I wish I could, but I can not lay claim to the term Sextard. Here’s where I found it, Ask E. Jean. The definition: a guy who just wants you for sex. Pretty cool website actually. Type in your question, like “Why do I fall for bad boys?” and E. Jean will give you a [...]

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“Is your blog your boyfriend?”, etc.

October 11, 2008

Someone asked me if my blog was my boyfriend yesterday. I said – “Yes!” without hesitation. This blog is my boyfriend. It keeps me happy, makes me laugh and sometimes talks back. And it occupies my evenings. Ha! Is that nuts? I’m not sure… I’ve always been an extremely driven workaholic and writing has always been my passion.

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Speed Racer.

October 9, 2008

Benjamin is racing in a Trik-a-Thon tomorrow. The day care just told me about it today, otherwise I would have taken the afternoon off to cheer him on. Maybe I should anyway. Benjamin is a world-class tricycle rider by the way. We ditched the stroller months ago. Now it’s a bike ride to the coffee [...]

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Apocalypse Now?

October 8, 2008

Or will it be next month? Feels like it’s only a matter of time. My little sister called me from the bar she works at in Virginia. Dave Matthews pops up every once in a while, it’s a hot spot. “No one is here. It’s weird.” She says, her voice echoing amidst the empty tables [...]

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