I wish I could, but I can not lay claim to the term Sextard.
Here’s where I found it, Ask E. Jean. The definition: a guy who just wants you for sex.
Pretty cool website actually. Type in your question, like “Why do I fall for bad boys?” and E. Jean will give you a brutally honest answer via video. Made me smile. Her advice on how to weed out the sextards and wankers – don’t have sex with any of them! The jerks will give up and move on, while the real guys will stick around.
Or you could just be a single mom – that works too.
One of the many, many bright spots of this single mom existence is being able to weed out the sextards and wankers by default. But sometimes we fight that gut, ignore the red flags, and dive head first with the best of intentions only to find we’ve landed on a dud. But – hey, you win some you lose some, right?
E. Jean has inspired me.
E-mail me a question – any question – and I’ll give you a video answer. I will try to answer one question a week but things do get crazy around here so forgive me if it’s sporadic. Unless you guys love it, then I’ll bump it up on the priority list. We’ll see how it goes…
Let’s start with the questions.
E-mail them (anonymously if you like) to mssinglemama@gmail.com.
P.S. Don’t forget to set your dials on Monday night.
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And here’s a picture from Benjamin and I’s photo shoot today… it went really well. Benjamin was the most photogenic of the two of us though. A model, I am not… we’ll see how they turn out. I gave it my best but there are only so many faces I can make when cued.
Dax, the photographer, is awesome. I’m sure he’ll work some wonders. He’s also quite adorable and lives in a house filled with ex-marines who keep their house as clean as a whistle. I’ve never seen a bachelor pad like that in all of my days.
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He is so cute!! (Actually both boys are…). LOL – weed out the wankers. That needs to be high on my goal list.
So how do I get some blog badge love from you, girl? I want to be Ms. Single Mama Approved!
Thats a cool pic
Sure they came out stunning! I am also not a camera l so really battled with our shoots!!
I love this post though
Seems though all I get are sextards and wankers – lol could you maybe answer that – why I find all the duds?
Sextards, is that sexually, politically or socially incorrect, or all three. All ways, I like it, quality wordage.
Questions, questions, questions. I have a load for you, will have to have a think about my best one.
And ‘no model’? While I agree, much like myself, that your son is photogenic, I’ve seen your radio promo poses!
I can’t wait to seem more pictures! so.. how come you didn’t make some suggestive winks at the photographer?
Oh.. and what outfit did you decide on finally?
I started a post about my dating from POF.
http://crunchygreenmom.blogspot.com/2008/10/my-current-distraction.html
Take care!!
I should ask E. Jean why my hubby was such a jerk! i just divorced him recently and then for closure I sold the engagement ring he gave me to http://www.idonowidont.com and felt better about things. I am not sure any advice would save the marriage, he totally cheated on me but you never know. I will maybe ask for advice to where to find Mr. Right part 2!
Oh yes, whenever I am trying to back a guy up I just mention that I have four kids. Does the trick almost every time.