Comments on: How to Spot a Jerk

By: AlLaf

AlLaf — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 17:36:21 +0000

There’s a lot of bitterness in the comments.

There’s no such thing as a jerk, except outright sociopaths.

Relationships can suck and most of the time, when we get hurt, we are solely responsible what happens because we’re too stupid to see the enormous cloud of smoke that precedes the fire.

Where there is a persecutor, there is someone who lets himself be a victim…

…most of the time.

By: Jim H.

Jim H. — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 19:05:00 +0000

The Jerk is the guy women want to bang. Seriously. He’s the reason most of you are single mothers. You’re drawn to the Jerk. Other names for him would be the Hot Guy, the Cool Guy, the Racy Guy, the Dangerous Guy. You all want him.

Meanwhile, the Nice Guys are sitting at home dateless (yes, that’s me). We’re stable, caring, have a plan for our lives, would do anything for our mate. But so many women are drawn to losers. It’s sad. Just my two cents.

By: Aprille

Aprille — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 23:32:29 +0000

The Narcissit ….. I am sooo good at spotting them. Namely, EVERY single guy I have dated. hmm.. wonder if that means I am a narcissit and don’t even know it. Crap! I knew it was something having to do with me! But really, everyone, avoid this one at all costs, it hurts so much more when it ends then you can imagine.

By: Random Esquire

Random Esquire — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 21:12:00 +0000

Good tips, QT!

That #5 certainly does sound like that bastard you dated who didn’t have any sense.

-R.

By: Janet

Janet — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 13:27:59 +0000

Wow, I can’t count how many jerks I met. I am bbw and I get guys who think I am so in the for a man because of my weight. A couple would say you are lucky I am talking to you. What a jerk.

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By: pisceshanna

pisceshanna — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 18:13:09 +0000

Thanks for sharing your unending wisdom with us grasshopper single moms. I saw an online dating profile that said “I like kids, but only if they are MY kids,”

DEFINITE JERK.

By: Terry

Terry — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 17:36:45 +0000

Super post, QT Mama. Loved the one about the guy who only wants to see you when he’s drunk!

By: jenn

jenn — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 16:26:41 +0000

So true! Great observations. Thanks. (I recongnized my ex in there, also.)