Comments on: Love at first sight. http://mssinglemama.com/2008/08/12/single-mom-love/ Single Mom Dating? Real advice from a real single mom. Thu, 24 May 2012 03:18:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Mama Kayhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/08/12/single-mom-love/#comment-11899 Mama Kay Tue, 11 Aug 2009 19:31:59 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=903#comment-11899 In December 2008, I made a choice between a man and my soul mate. My soul mate won. I'm two days overdue as I write this. I can't wait to hold my son in my arms. I will never regret choosing my baby over his dad. He hasn't even been born yet he's changed my life for the better, unlike the loser who's his dad. I would like to meet a nice man who pushes all the right buttons one day, but for now, I'm happy to be sharing my life with my life partner. Love your blog - it captured what I've been through. So good to know I'm not alone. xx In December 2008, I made a choice between a man and my soul mate. My soul mate won. I’m two days overdue as I write this. I can’t wait to hold my son in my arms. I will never regret choosing my baby over his dad. He hasn’t even been born yet he’s changed my life for the better, unlike the loser who’s his dad. I would like to meet a nice man who pushes all the right buttons one day, but for now, I’m happy to be sharing my life with my life partner.

Love your blog – it captured what I’ve been through. So good to know I’m not alone. xx

]]> By: mssinglemamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/08/12/single-mom-love/#comment-5810 mssinglemama Fri, 16 Jan 2009 03:59:12 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=903#comment-5810 Barbara - so nice to "meet" you too... and coming to that realization, you may find, is quite an amazing experience. As soon as you do "own that" feeling you may also find the men falling from the sky. (but by then you won't need them.... ) You'll see... Everything will be just fine either way. It's your destiny... you choose your path. XOXO Barbara – so nice to “meet” you too… and coming to that realization, you may find, is quite an amazing experience.

As soon as you do “own that” feeling you may also find the men falling from the sky. (but by then you won’t need them…. )

You’ll see…

Everything will be just fine either way. It’s your destiny… you choose your path.

XOXO

]]> By: Barbarahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/08/12/single-mom-love/#comment-5809 Barbara Fri, 16 Jan 2009 02:09:45 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=903#comment-5809 Ok, this one has finally brought me out of lurking. I have been reading for quite some time. This particular post ties into things I am really dealing with at the moment. The good Lord blessed me with two beautiful daughters that are 8 & 10 but no sons. I have been on my own now for about a year and a half. I have really been trying to work on myself and truly live the concept that no other person on this earth can be responsible for my happiness. Another one of those things in life that is so much more easily said than done. I think it is a daily re-affirmation. I would love to have that very special person but I'm beginning to think that the time for that is not right now. I am grateful for the different men that I have had in my life, There have only been a couple but I have learned from them and they have helped me immensly through different seasons in my life. It's very hard to sit back and be patient. Single parenting is so hard and this is never in a million years where I thought I would be. That in itself is a whole other subject. Anyway, now that I've come out of lurking it's very nice to meet you. :) Ok, this one has finally brought me out of lurking. I have been reading for quite some time. This particular post ties into things I am really dealing with at the moment. The good Lord blessed me with two beautiful daughters that are 8 & 10 but no sons. I have been on my own now for about a year and a half. I have really been trying to work on myself and truly live the concept that no other person on this earth can be responsible for my happiness. Another one of those things in life that is so much more easily said than done. I think it is a daily re-affirmation. I would love to have that very special person but I’m beginning to think that the time for that is not right now. I am grateful for the different men that I have had in my life, There have only been a couple but I have learned from them and they have helped me immensly through different seasons in my life. It’s very hard to sit back and be patient. Single parenting is so hard and this is never in a million years where I thought I would be. That in itself is a whole other subject.

Anyway, now that I’ve come out of lurking it’s very nice to meet you. :)

]]> By: Reality.http://mssinglemama.com/2008/08/12/single-mom-love/#comment-5803 Reality. Thu, 15 Jan 2009 18:35:42 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=903#comment-5803 [...] Love at First Sight (in which I ponder the hard core reality that I may never find my “soul mate” and in which Benjamin thanks me for the sky. Check out the comments on this one - some were critical but pointed.) [...] [...] Love at First Sight (in which I ponder the hard core reality that I may never find my “soul mate” and in which Benjamin thanks me for the sky. Check out the comments on this one – some were critical but pointed.) [...]

]]> By: Meganhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/08/12/single-mom-love/#comment-5788 Megan Wed, 14 Jan 2009 21:17:03 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=903#comment-5788 not a single mom, but still know where you're coming from. my fiance works 21 day stretches in a row and usually they are 16 hour days. so my kid (she is only 15 months) gets to hear the brunt of mommy's worries. hm. she's going to start understanding things sooner than i think, so that's going to have to change. but tis hard. love this site btw. not a single mom, but still know where you’re coming from. my fiance works 21 day stretches in a row and usually they are 16 hour days. so my kid (she is only 15 months) gets to hear the brunt of mommy’s worries. hm. she’s going to start understanding things sooner than i think, so that’s going to have to change. but tis hard. love this site btw.

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]]> By: My worst enemy…http://mssinglemama.com/2008/08/12/single-mom-love/#comment-4092 My worst enemy… Tue, 28 Oct 2008 03:38:38 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=903#comment-4092 [...] Love at First Sight [...] [...] Love at First Sight [...]

]]> By: mssinglemamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/08/12/single-mom-love/#comment-2823 mssinglemama Sat, 16 Aug 2008 16:20:43 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=903#comment-2823 D - is there a good biography on Mead? Have to go hunting now ... Jenn - THNAK YOU. D – is there a good biography on Mead? Have to go hunting now …

Jenn – THNAK YOU.

]]> By: jennhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/08/12/single-mom-love/#comment-2820 jenn Sat, 16 Aug 2008 03:58:10 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=903#comment-2820 “The sky. Tank you for the sky.” Awww! My heart just melted! So sweet. Glad to see the discussion going toward leaning on kids too much. I can see how that would be easy to do and I've seen people do it. (Although nothing in this post made me think that of you Ms. SM.) It's so important for us to be aware of this, as single parents, because we do get lonely. I hope, by keeping that in mind, I will not do that to my child, no matter how easy it is. “The sky. Tank you for the sky.”

Awww! My heart just melted! So sweet.

Glad to see the discussion going toward leaning on kids too much. I can see how that would be easy to do and I’ve seen people do it. (Although nothing in this post made me think that of you Ms. SM.) It’s so important for us to be aware of this, as single parents, because we do get lonely. I hope, by keeping that in mind, I will not do that to my child, no matter how easy it is.

]]> By: Dhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/08/12/single-mom-love/#comment-2817 D Fri, 15 Aug 2008 23:39:48 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/?p=903#comment-2817 Different partners for different stages in life. Margaret Mead was married three times. Her first marriage, she referred to as "my student marriage"- also maybe can be called training marriage. Her subsequent marriages fitting to the life stages she was in- professional development, being a mother. Kinda makes sense Different partners for different stages in life. Margaret Mead was married three times. Her first marriage, she referred to as “my student marriage”- also maybe can be called training marriage. Her subsequent marriages fitting to the life stages she was in- professional development, being a mother. Kinda makes sense

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