Hello Russians…

by mssinglemama on July 25, 2008

Hundreds of you have found me through this website.

I don’t speak Russian but the website name “Russian-Fiancee” has me wondering what you’re here for. I know you’re definitely reading my eHarmony vs. Yahoo review.

But just in case you’re coming for another reason I just want to tell you a few things.

1. I am not a mail order bride

2. I do not want a husband yet (contrary to my random mood swings that say otherwise)

3. Thank you for visiting my site! I think you’ll find out that American single moms are quite an extraodrinary group of women.

4. I do think eHarmony is far worse than Yahoo or Match. Whatever you do, do not try eHarmony.

I met a couple out on an eHarmony date tonight. The man was cocky as hell, thought he had her in the palm of his hands. When the guys weren’t looking I whispered to her – “So, do you like him?”

Her answer:

“I don’t know. I’m definitely keeping my options open.”

I gave her a nod of single woman approval/sympathy and wished her a good night, this while the guy went on boasting – so obnoxious. If only he would have taken two minutes to notice her, he might have won the girl.

Before leaving, I told her to keep the next eHarmony first date to a brief one hour long time slot. Otherwise you could be stuck trying desperatley to escape.

Related posts:

  1. E-Harmony’s Matches are Dead Wrong
  2. E-harmony Dating Review: for the single parent or any other dater
  3. Single mom for sale!
  4. E-Harmony Really Does Suck: Worst web site of the year by Time Magazine
  5. Playground wars.

{ 18 comments… read them below or add one }

mycrazyhecticlife July 25, 2008 at 6:52 am

Wish I had read this blog before I joined eharmony, HA! It is a serious waste of time and money! Yes, us single moms are extraordinary and we all have to stick together to make life just alittle more fun!

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cisforcow July 25, 2008 at 8:46 am

lurvin’ this blog! i have seriously been spending hours reading (while at work! LOL) – amazed and feeling incredibly validated all at once! YAY!

anyway, i digress, Eharmony – i filled out that GD 3million questionnaire and they came back to tell me that i had ZERO matches to my profile…ZERO??? really? im a f-ing pariah on Eharmony…that was the end of that.

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QTMama July 25, 2008 at 10:21 am

WHAT? You’re not a mail order bride? What the hell …

I gotta go. ;)

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mssinglemama July 25, 2008 at 4:41 pm

Crazy hectic life – wish you would have found it before you joined too! eHarmony is just such a waste of money – at least in my city it was.

C – I am SO glad you found my blog … now get back to work! Why would you have ZERO matches. Once I only had 7 – and it stayed that way for 4 months. So annoying.

QT – LOL.

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Roberto February 3, 2015 at 4:19 am

don’t worry you’ll find some one,, well unless u want the sex then that’s just wrong, i guess pepole are desperate for dates is every one so inpatient they cant just wait for mr or ms right to find them instead of going on a witch hunt

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cisforcow July 25, 2008 at 4:50 pm

It was actually pre baby – i must have been very idealistic and pretentious…LOL.. I use Match now – i’ve honestly had three relationships in 6 years from that…including my son(who BTW is also Ben)’s father. Lately – and by lately i mean this YEAR, i’ve been out like three times and the last one was actually fun – total bad guy – but fun and momma needed some fun that didn’t come with batteries KWIM?

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OneManThreeKids July 25, 2008 at 5:55 pm

I can purchase a wife? Too cool. LOL

I tried the match, yahoo, and eHarmony. I actually liked eHarmony and seriously dated a woman for 7 months off the site. It was a lot of work to get there though.

@cisforcow – your comment…ROFL So glad I am a guy some days.

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