Hello Russians…

by mssinglemama on July 25, 2008

Hundreds of you have found me through this website.

I don’t speak Russian but the website name “Russian-Fiancee” has me wondering what you’re here for. I know you’re definitely reading my eHarmony vs. Yahoo review.

But just in case you’re coming for another reason I just want to tell you a few things.

1. I am not a mail order bride

2. I do not want a husband yet (contrary to my random mood swings that say otherwise)

3. Thank you for visiting my site! I think you’ll find out that American single moms are quite an extraodrinary group of women.

4. I do think eHarmony is far worse than Yahoo or Match. Whatever you do, do not try eHarmony.

I met a couple out on an eHarmony date tonight. The man was cocky as hell, thought he had her in the palm of his hands. When the guys weren’t looking I whispered to her – “So, do you like him?”

Her answer:

“I don’t know. I’m definitely keeping my options open.”

I gave her a nod of single woman approval/sympathy and wished her a good night, this while the guy went on boasting – so obnoxious. If only he would have taken two minutes to notice her, he might have won the girl.

Before leaving, I told her to keep the next eHarmony first date to a brief one hour long time slot. Otherwise you could be stuck trying desperatley to escape.

{ 35 comments… read them below or add one }

mycrazyhecticlife July 25, 2008 at 6:52 am

Wish I had read this blog before I joined eharmony, HA! It is a serious waste of time and money! Yes, us single moms are extraordinary and we all have to stick together to make life just alittle more fun!


cisforcow July 25, 2008 at 8:46 am

lurvin’ this blog! i have seriously been spending hours reading (while at work! LOL) – amazed and feeling incredibly validated all at once! YAY!

anyway, i digress, Eharmony – i filled out that GD 3million questionnaire and they came back to tell me that i had ZERO matches to my profile…ZERO??? really? im a f-ing pariah on Eharmony…that was the end of that.


QTMama July 25, 2008 at 10:21 am

WHAT? You’re not a mail order bride? What the hell …

I gotta go. 😉


mssinglemama July 25, 2008 at 4:41 pm

Crazy hectic life – wish you would have found it before you joined too! eHarmony is just such a waste of money – at least in my city it was.

C – I am SO glad you found my blog … now get back to work! Why would you have ZERO matches. Once I only had 7 – and it stayed that way for 4 months. So annoying.



Roberto February 3, 2015 at 4:19 am

don’t worry you’ll find some one,, well unless u want the sex then that’s just wrong, i guess pepole are desperate for dates is every one so inpatient they cant just wait for mr or ms right to find them instead of going on a witch hunt


cisforcow July 25, 2008 at 4:50 pm

It was actually pre baby – i must have been very idealistic and pretentious…LOL.. I use Match now – i’ve honestly had three relationships in 6 years from that…including my son(who BTW is also Ben)’s father. Lately – and by lately i mean this YEAR, i’ve been out like three times and the last one was actually fun – total bad guy – but fun and momma needed some fun that didn’t come with batteries KWIM?


OneManThreeKids July 25, 2008 at 5:55 pm

I can purchase a wife? Too cool. LOL

I tried the match, yahoo, and eHarmony. I actually liked eHarmony and seriously dated a woman for 7 months off the site. It was a lot of work to get there though.

@cisforcow – your comment…ROFL So glad I am a guy some days.


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