Comments on: Obama Calls Out Dead Beat Dads http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/ Single Mom Dating, Love, and Life Advice Sat, 20 Mar 2010 23:48:20 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: shari hodges http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/#comment-14785 shari hodges Sun, 13 Dec 2009 03:21:14 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=536#comment-14785 I wrote to the White House for the last year, and again last month, and pointed out there is a deadbeat working right there at Fort Meade. So far, no reply. Nothing. What House says nothing. Obama is a jerk. I wrote to the White House for the last year, and again last month, and pointed out there is a deadbeat working right there at Fort Meade. So far, no reply. Nothing. What House says nothing. Obama is a jerk.

]]> By: Tiffanie http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/#comment-14630 Tiffanie Thu, 03 Dec 2009 03:13:55 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=536#comment-14630 I feel ya Tanya. He gave a great speach but when are the kids gonna start seeing their money. I'm tired of having to struggle with no help from my son's father, well I should say sperm donor. I have been in court every 3 months for the last dang near 4 years now just to recieve a 100.00 hear in there. If they would crack down on these deadbeats half the single moms wouldnt need help from the United States to help take care of their children. Something needs to be done the law needs to be changed. I went to court last week these men are allowed to lie and give every excuse in the world not to take care of their children and get away with it. I was told while I was at court theres no room in the jails for them so theres nothing they can do and to blame it on the legislation theres more men then women on there its their fault we cant do anything. Well hell ,then I say they need to build more jails these men are lying,cheating and doing whatever they can to get in females pants then when the baby come they just walk away to do it to someone else. It is not fair they are breaking the law and not being punished. And the children of america are suffering for it! To all the single mothers we need to ban together and make the law change this. Please feel free to email me at tiffaniew_mail@yahoo.com we got to change the law ladies! I feel ya Tanya. He gave a great speach but when are the kids gonna start seeing their money. I’m tired of having to struggle with no help from my son’s father, well I should say sperm donor. I have been in court every 3 months for the last dang near 4 years now just to recieve a 100.00 hear in there. If they would crack down on these deadbeats half the single moms wouldnt need help from the United States to help take care of their children. Something needs to be done the law needs to be changed. I went to court last week these men are allowed to lie and give every excuse in the world not to take care of their children and get away with it. I was told while I was at court theres no room in the jails for them so theres nothing they can do and to blame it on the legislation theres more men then women on there its their fault we cant do anything. Well hell ,then I say they need to build more jails these men are lying,cheating and doing whatever they can to get in females pants then when the baby come they just walk away to do it to someone else. It is not fair they are breaking the law and not being punished. And the children of america are suffering for it! To all the single mothers we need to ban together and make the law change this. Please feel free to email me at tiffaniew_mail@yahoo.com we got to change the law ladies!

]]> By: tanya brown http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/#comment-14371 tanya brown Wed, 11 Nov 2009 01:41:20 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=536#comment-14371 I am glad obama called out the deadbeat dads, but why not make them pay instead??? Enforce the law make them pay there support or throw them in jail I am tired of all the talk I want my child support I am glad obama called out the deadbeat dads, but why not make them pay instead??? Enforce the law make them pay there support or throw them in jail I am tired of all the talk I want my child support

]]> By: Ginger http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/#comment-14106 Ginger Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:11:10 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=536#comment-14106 Sorry Obama, but what do you care? You want to fix the economy - GET US MOMS OUR BACK CHILD SUPPORT!! Then we can pay our bills. Sorry Obama, but what do you care? You want to fix the economy – GET US MOMS OUR BACK CHILD SUPPORT!! Then we can pay our bills.

]]> By: Ginger http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/#comment-14105 Ginger Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:06:39 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=536#comment-14105 I'm sorry. I just don't see it. He, like all of the presidents before him have done nothing to protect the single mother. Nothing has changed in the system. Hardly ever does someone even talk about it. All I see is deadbeat dads being protected and moms going without as the rising costs of everything - no one better tell me the recession is over. They must be the ones ripping people like me off. I’m sorry. I just don’t see it. He, like all of the presidents before him have done nothing to protect the single mother. Nothing has changed in the system. Hardly ever does someone even talk about it. All I see is deadbeat dads being protected and moms going without as the rising costs of everything – no one better tell me the recession is over. They must be the ones ripping people like me off.

]]> By: shari hodges http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/#comment-14051 shari hodges Mon, 02 Nov 2009 22:51:33 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=536#comment-14051 Well, don't hold your breath. My deadbeat ex husband is a senior intelligence officer at the NSA, with a front door pass to the White House, still owes 13 years of child support, got out of court ordered examinations by waving his security clearance and going "I don't have to come to court" - and nobody made him either. Prosecutors could never nail him. I posted stuff all over the Internet, you can google his name, Steven Grimaud deadbeat, and until Obama strolls over to the NSA and asks "what is this deadbeat doing working for the Federal government" I'll still won't have any faith in the Obama administration to clean up the deadbeats. Well, don’t hold your breath. My deadbeat ex husband is a senior intelligence officer at the NSA, with a front door pass to the White House, still owes 13 years of child support, got out of court ordered examinations by waving his security clearance and going “I don’t have to come to court” – and nobody made him either. Prosecutors could never nail him. I posted stuff all over the Internet, you can google his name, Steven Grimaud deadbeat, and until Obama strolls over to the NSA and asks “what is this deadbeat doing working for the Federal government” I’ll still won’t have any faith in the Obama administration to clean up the deadbeats.

]]> By: sarah http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/#comment-13377 sarah Wed, 14 Oct 2009 02:53:36 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=536#comment-13377 Look all you fathers out there who are doing what your supposed to be doing i commend you... but you should be just as mad as us even more because there are Dead beat dads out there and they are the ones that we are mad at why are you offended that we are mad at the people who gave some dads a bad name. I love the fact that Obama can commend single moms and as a single parent you should commend them too. I am a single mom of a two year old i have raised my child with no help for the past 2 years. The father didn't even look for my child until she turned one.. despite him not paying i have let him see her.. he shows up every couple of months calls her maybe once a month but uses her to get to me all the time. He has harassed me , verbally and emotionally abused me and i have tried to handle it just for my daughter you wonder why some moms don't let the fathers see there kids maybe its because they are scared they are sick of the fights, they are sick of not being supported or helped. Just because you have baby mama's drama doesn't mean you have the right to look down on all single moms. Take responsibility in your own actions. as we do with ours by raising these children alone every day! Look all you fathers out there who are doing what your supposed to be doing i commend you… but you should be just as mad as us even more because there are Dead beat dads out there and they are the ones that we are mad at why are you offended that we are mad at the people who gave some dads a bad name. I love the fact that Obama can commend single moms and as a single parent you should commend them too. I am a single mom of a two year old i have raised my child with no help for the past 2 years. The father didn’t even look for my child until she turned one.. despite him not paying i have let him see her.. he shows up every couple of months calls her maybe once a month but uses her to get to me all the time. He has harassed me , verbally and emotionally abused me and i have tried to handle it just for my daughter you wonder why some moms don’t let the fathers see there kids maybe its because they are scared they are sick of the fights, they are sick of not being supported or helped. Just because you have baby mama’s drama doesn’t mean you have the right to look down on all single moms. Take responsibility in your own actions. as we do with ours by raising these children alone every day!

]]> By: crystal http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/#comment-13181 crystal Sat, 03 Oct 2009 07:13:17 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=536#comment-13181 I had a wonderful relationship, with my mother as a young girl. I often wonder many things about my father. I remember nothing about this man even thought I was five years old when my parents got a divorce. Then one day my mother decides that we should go and stay the summer with my father and visit my grandmother in Iowa. I told my mother I would not go and this was a mistake. I know he had just had a new baby and his current wife/ women when he decides to come in from one of his other women’s houses. Plus she had two older kids around the same age as my sibling and I. I had a felling, that he was not going to be the one caring for us once we drove south from Minnesota. My heart had no feelings for this deadbeat. Like clock work he arrived all smiles and empty handed. Thinking was all was good after not sending any Bday, Xmas, or the low monthly child support of twenty five dollars in the early 1974 for three kids on still wearing diapers. The one memory I do have is who I felt, when he moved every Item in the house leaving only the kid’s cloth’s three suite case and toys’. He empties the house after the last fight between him and my mom. He took it all and left town and empted the bank account so my mother could not pay the mortgage or find an apartment. Thankfully she looked stronger the she felt when she went to work with for two weeks wearing the same three pant and few shirts she packed when she left after the fight and the police said my father would not be arrested he just being ask to leave for a few day until things die down. Know I kind of fell the same way whit my children father. He been gone for over nine years and he see the older boys that know him but the last child does not know him and he had the number and address and lived in the same city and has not made any attempt to visit or build an relationship with his children. I had a wonderful relationship, with my mother as a young girl. I often wonder many things about my father. I remember nothing about this man even thought I was five years old when my parents got a divorce. Then one day my mother decides that we should go and stay the summer with my father and visit my grandmother in Iowa. I told my mother I would not go and this was a mistake.
I know he had just had a new baby and his current wife/ women when he decides to come in from one of his other women’s houses. Plus she had two older kids around the same age as my sibling and I.
I had a felling, that he was not going to be the one caring for us once we drove south from Minnesota.
My heart had no feelings for this deadbeat. Like clock work he arrived all smiles and empty handed. Thinking was all was good after not sending any Bday, Xmas, or the low monthly child support of twenty five dollars in the early 1974 for three kids on still wearing diapers. The one memory I do have is who I felt, when he moved every Item in the house leaving only the kid’s cloth’s three suite case and toys’. He empties the house after the last fight between him and my mom. He took it all and left town and empted the bank account so my mother could not pay the mortgage or find an apartment.
Thankfully she looked stronger the she felt when she went to work with for two weeks wearing the same three pant and few shirts she packed when she left after the fight and the police said my father would not be arrested he just being ask to leave for a few day until things die down.
Know I kind of fell the same way whit my children father. He been gone for over nine years and he see the older boys that know him but the last child does not know him and he had the number and address and lived in the same city and has not made any attempt to visit or build an relationship with his children.

]]> By: Csnider http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/#comment-10593 Csnider Thu, 25 Jun 2009 01:24:34 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=536#comment-10593 How about Parental Alienation? which involves the sysemtic brainwashing, poisoning and manipulation of children with the sole purpose of destroying a loving and warm relationship they once shared with a parent (usually a ftaher). My story involves this form of child abuse and bias court system favouring the mother in the ecosytem for female support. I'm 100% sure I was part of making my daughter but the court doesnt see it that way. I was in my daughters life for 8 years before she was legally kidnapped from me. Only person that gets hurt is my daughter. What will Obama do with the parents that practice Parental Alienation? This is a growing epidemic that usually woman do against the fathers. I haven't seen or spoke to my daughter in two years. Yet, My ex-wife collects 1200.00 a month in child support. Where is the justice for men? When will Obama start to take control of the injustice family courts. I feel an overwhelming sense of alienation, having been pushed aside and devalued by feminist rhetoric. I'm outraged at our family valves and our family courts. I'm a GREAT DAD!! How about Parental Alienation?

which involves the sysemtic brainwashing, poisoning and manipulation of children with the sole purpose of destroying a loving and warm relationship they once shared with a parent (usually a ftaher). My story involves this form of child abuse and bias court system favouring the mother in the ecosytem for female support.
I'm 100% sure I was part of making my daughter but the court doesnt see it that way. I was in my daughters life for 8 years before she was legally kidnapped from me. Only person that gets hurt is my daughter.
What will Obama do with the parents that practice Parental Alienation? This is a growing epidemic that usually woman do against the fathers. I haven't seen or spoke to my daughter in two years. Yet, My ex-wife collects 1200.00 a month in child support. Where is the justice for men? When will Obama start to take control of the injustice family courts. I feel an overwhelming sense of alienation, having been pushed aside and devalued by feminist rhetoric. I'm outraged at our family valves and our family courts. I'm a GREAT DAD!!

]]> By: jenny http://mssinglemama.com/2008/06/16/obama-calls-out-dead-beat-dads/#comment-9620 jenny Fri, 22 May 2009 12:56:39 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=536#comment-9620 forgot to add or should have added.I am 23 years old and still living at home with mom and dad and working a one day a week job and yes i have problems with paying my own bills getting my boy what he needs because his deadbeat dad cant even give his own son anything and never ever has.I know it was going to happen anyways and ive tried everything to get our boys dad o come see him or buy him a little toy or something in general.I filled out court papers to go for support.But they ended up closing my case all because i forgot to fill out one line.I figured i shouldnt do it anyways because it give my sons dad rights to see him when he wants and get him when he wanted to.But he is not a fit dad and is not a good roll model for our son.But i agree with the single mothers everythings a struggle. forgot to add or should have added.I am 23 years old and still living at home with mom and dad and working a one day a week job and yes i have problems with paying my own bills getting my boy what he needs because his deadbeat dad cant even give his own son anything and never ever has.I know it was going to happen anyways and ive tried everything to get our boys dad o come see him or buy him a little toy or something in general.I filled out court papers to go for support.But they ended up closing my case all because i forgot to fill out one line.I figured i shouldnt do it anyways because it give my sons dad rights to see him when he wants and get him when he wanted to.But he is not a fit dad and is not a good roll model for our son.But i agree with the single mothers everythings a struggle.

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