Comments on: How to Date a Single Mom, Part 3 http://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/ Single Mom Dating? Real advice from a real single mom. Tue, 22 May 2012 16:28:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Benhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/#comment-24691 Ben Tue, 11 Jan 2011 05:23:33 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=470#comment-24691 Gosh AlLaf I can so relate to you. I will try to readers digest my story for you all! I am in same boat I had had intrest in this girl two years ago. I learned she had just divorced a guy who fit my MO. We both were firemen to many simiarities I decided not to persue her. Over events of two years she kept popping in my life kinda in the way! I met her kid at church as I teach a young boys mentoring program that is camping based. Needless to say the kid is amazing! I still avoided her like the plauge! Time passed situation arose I decided to try meet her and get this monkey off my back. Its been the most amazing time since. I have no kids and I truely love hers! I dont know how you parents do it. If I had my own my heart would jump out of my chest. I also love her lil does she know I have not said it to her yet! We have been dating a short time! Her EX(the jerk) left her twisting in the wind and now im trying to come in after that! Yeah im REBOUND potential! She is worth the risk.....I feel much of times im trying to have to compete with him and im not even trying! Well that being said. I also know ill be second and im okay with that i love the boy too he deserves that love he even called me DAD once I cried. Might I add I rarely CRY! She has had heart break and bad things go on in her life and maybe im trying to hard but im there ill be there im proving it and I will continue to do so. Im commited till she boots me. But I know no guy will care for her like im doing right now and not just to win her affection but her heart! Ill keep doing it way past any LTR that should come of it! Could I go find another single gal .....YES but I dont want to she Is more amazing than I can imagine! So whats the problem...? She has not let me in. Its been three months not a KISS yet .....okay I can wait longer for that. She does not share affection much if at all! I tell her everday how beautiful she is ..... trust me SHE IS HOT! DROP DEAD GORGEOUS. She says she has attraction and not because I love her son either. So if she reached out for a hug it would make me feel better. She doesnt do that. Yeah it breaks my heart some to say it im going the 99% and I feel I get 1%. She tells me this will work out but action speak louder than words. Wow total turn around a girl said that to me once years and years back. My florist is becoming wealthy off me i get her flowers often .... I am not buying her affection ive told her that if she feels that way she needs to let me know! I am trying to fix things around the house and help out too! Anything that helps her helps me is the way I see it! I need some RECOGNITION! Some assureance nothing is 100% but have faith. She is so smart so fast that im not sure how to remind her .... I am not perfect! Im not her EX..... Im a SINGLE CHILDLESS guy who has has nothing to worry about than himself who is falliing in love with her! I make consessions to the boy ... granded he deserves alot. I just as for a small part of her Ill take left overs .....Im not being fed right now! So she has had heart ache after heartache and pain too she was in bad wreck right before we got together. Picking up the physical pieces too! Her family support is near non existent I have loaned her mine! My family loves her thinks the world of her. I have gone out of my way to ask a favor for her that i would not ask of myself. Yeah I think im superman and can deal with it. I have to try she can potentially be the best thing in my life ever! Other than GOD she is the most important thing to me. I do love her boy and he seems to love me too! What more can I say its rewarding I do have EXPECTATIONS but even SUPERMAN lost faith once or twice in humanity.....how long can I or should I last! Gosh AlLaf I can so relate to you. I will try to readers digest my story for you all! I am in same boat I had had intrest in this girl two years ago. I learned she had just divorced a guy who fit my MO. We both were firemen to many simiarities I decided not to persue her. Over events of two years she kept popping in my life kinda in the way! I met her kid at church as I teach a young boys mentoring program that is camping based. Needless to say the kid is amazing! I still avoided her like the plauge! Time passed situation arose I decided to try meet her and get this monkey off my back. Its been the most amazing time since. I have no kids and I truely love hers! I dont know how you parents do it. If I had my own my heart would jump out of my chest. I also love her lil does she know I have not said it to her yet! We have been dating a short time! Her EX(the jerk) left her twisting in the wind and now im trying to come in after that! Yeah im REBOUND potential! She is worth the risk.....I feel much of times im trying to have to compete with him and im not even trying! Well that being said. I also know ill be second and im okay with that i love the boy too he deserves that love he even called me DAD once I cried. Might I add I rarely CRY! She has had heart break and bad things go on in her life and maybe im trying to hard but im there ill be there im proving it and I will continue to do so. Im commited till she boots me. But I know no guy will care for her like im doing right now and not just to win her affection but her heart! Ill keep doing it way past any LTR that should come of it! Could I go find another single gal .....YES but I dont want to she Is more amazing than I can imagine! So whats the problem...? She has not let me in. Its been three months not a KISS yet .....okay I can wait longer for that. She does not share affection much if at all! I tell her everday how beautiful she is ..... trust me SHE IS HOT! DROP DEAD GORGEOUS. She says she has attraction and not because I love her son either. So if she reached out for a hug it would make me feel better. She doesnt do that. Yeah it breaks my heart some to say it im going the 99% and I feel I get 1%. She tells me this will work out but action speak louder than words. Wow total turn around a girl said that to me once years and years back. My florist is becoming wealthy off me i get her flowers often .... I am not buying her affection ive told her that if she feels that way she needs to let me know! I am trying to fix things around the house and help out too! Anything that helps her helps me is the way I see it! I need some RECOGNITION! Some assureance nothing is 100% but have faith. She is so smart so fast that im not sure how to remind her .... I am not perfect! Im not her EX..... Im a SINGLE CHILDLESS guy who has has nothing to worry about than himself who is falliing in love with her! I make consessions to the boy ... granded he deserves alot. I just as for a small part of her Ill take left overs .....Im not being fed right now! So she has had heart ache after heartache and pain too she was in bad wreck right before we got together. Picking up the physical pieces too! Her family support is near non existent I have loaned her mine! My family loves her thinks the world of her. I have gone out of my way to ask a favor for her that i would not ask of myself. Yeah I think im superman and can deal with it. I have to try she can potentially be the best thing in my life ever! Other than GOD she is the most important thing to me. I do love her boy and he seems to love me too! What more can I say its rewarding I do have EXPECTATIONS but even SUPERMAN lost faith once or twice in humanity.....how long can I or should I last! Gosh AlLaf I can so relate to you. I will try to readers digest my story for you all! I am in same boat I had had intrest in this girl two years ago. I learned she had just divorced a guy who fit my MO. We both were firemen to many simiarities I decided not to persue her. Over events of two years she kept popping in my life kinda in the way! I met her kid at church as I teach a young boys mentoring program that is camping based. Needless to say the kid is amazing! I still avoided her like the plauge! Time passed situation arose I decided to try meet her and get this monkey off my back. Its been the most amazing time since. I have no kids and I truely love hers! I dont know how you parents do it. If I had my own my heart would jump out of my chest. I also love her lil does she know I have not said it to her yet! We have been dating a short time! Her EX(the jerk) left her twisting in the wind and now im trying to come in after that! Yeah im REBOUND potential! She is worth the risk.....I feel much of times im trying to have to compete with him and im not even trying! Well that being said. I also know ill be second and im okay with that i love the boy too he deserves that love he even called me DAD once I cried. Might I add I rarely CRY! She has had heart break and bad things go on in her life and maybe im trying to hard but im there ill be there im proving it and I will continue to do so. Im commited till she boots me. But I know no guy will care for her like im doing right now and not just to win her affection but her heart! Ill keep doing it way past any LTR that should come of it! Could I go find another single gal .....YES but I dont want to she Is more amazing than I can imagine! So whats the problem...? She has not let me in. Its been three months not a KISS yet .....okay I can wait longer for that. She does not share affection much if at all! I tell her everday how beautiful she is ..... trust me SHE IS HOT! DROP DEAD GORGEOUS. She says she has attraction and not because I love her son either. So if she reached out for a hug it would make me feel better. She doesnt do that. Yeah it breaks my heart some to say it im going the 99% and I feel I get 1%. She tells me this will work out but action speak louder than words. Wow total turn around a girl said that to me once years and years back. My florist is becoming wealthy off me i get her flowers often .... I am not buying her affection ive told her that if she feels that way she needs to let me know! I am trying to fix things around the house and help out too! Anything that helps her helps me is the way I see it! I need some RECOGNITION! Some assureance nothing is 100% but have faith. She is so smart so fast that im not sure how to remind her .... I am not perfect! Im not her EX..... Im a SINGLE CHILDLESS guy who has has nothing to worry about than himself who is falliing in love with her! I make consessions to the boy ... granded he deserves alot. I just as for a small part of her Ill take left overs .....Im not being fed right now! So she has had heart ache after heartache and pain too she was in bad wreck right before we got together. Picking up the physical pieces too! Her family support is near non existent I have loaned her mine! My family loves her thinks the world of her. I have gone out of my way to ask a favor for her that i would not ask of myself. Yeah I think im superman and can deal with it. I have to try she can potentially be the best thing in my life ever! Other than GOD she is the most important thing to me. I do love her boy and he seems to love me too! What more can I say its rewarding I do have EXPECTATIONS but even SUPERMAN lost faith once or twice in humanity.....how long can I or should I last! Gosh AlLaf I can so relate to you.

I will try to readers digest my story for you all!

I am in same boat I had had intrest in this girl two years ago. I learned she had just divorced a guy who fit my MO. We both were firemen to many simiarities I decided not to persue her. Over events of two years she kept popping in my life kinda in the way! I met her kid at church as I teach a young boys mentoring program that is camping based. Needless to say the kid is amazing! I still avoided her like the plauge!
Time passed situation arose I decided to try meet her and get this monkey off my back. Its been the most amazing time since. I have no kids and I truely love hers! I dont know how you parents do it. If I had my own my heart would jump out of my chest. I also love her lil does she know I have not said it to her yet! We have been dating a short time!
Her EX(the jerk) left her twisting in the wind and now im trying to come in after that! Yeah im REBOUND potential! She is worth the risk…..I feel much of times im trying to have to compete with him and im not even trying! Well that being said. I also know ill be second and im okay with that i love the boy too he deserves that love he even called me DAD once I cried. Might I add I rarely CRY!
She has had heart break and bad things go on in her life and maybe im trying to hard but im there ill be there im proving it and I will continue to do so. Im commited till she boots me. But I know no guy will care for her like im doing right now and not just to win her affection but her heart! Ill keep doing it way past any LTR that should come of it! Could I go find another single gal …..YES but I dont want to she Is more amazing than I can imagine!
So whats the problem…? She has not let me in. Its been three months not a KISS yet …..okay I can wait longer for that. She does not share affection much if at all! I tell her everday how beautiful she is ….. trust me SHE IS HOT! DROP DEAD GORGEOUS. She says she has attraction and not because I love her son either. So if she reached out for a hug it would make me feel better. She doesnt do that. Yeah it breaks my heart some to say it im going the 99% and I feel I get 1%. She tells me this will work out but action speak louder than words. Wow total turn around a girl said that to me once years and years back. My florist is becoming wealthy off me i get her flowers often …. I am not buying her affection ive told her that if she feels that way she needs to let me know! I am trying to fix things around the house and help out too! Anything that helps her helps me is the way I see it!
I need some RECOGNITION! Some assureance nothing is 100% but have faith. She is so smart so fast that im not sure how to remind her …. I am not perfect! Im not her EX….. Im a SINGLE CHILDLESS guy who has has nothing to worry about than himself who is falliing in love with her! I make consessions to the boy … granded he deserves alot. I just as for a small part of her Ill take left overs …..Im not being fed right now!
So she has had heart ache after heartache and pain too she was in bad wreck right before we got together. Picking up the physical pieces too! Her family support is near non existent I have loaned her mine! My family loves her thinks the world of her. I have gone out of my way to ask a favor for her that i would not ask of myself. Yeah I think im superman and can deal with it. I have to try she can potentially be the best thing in my life ever! Other than GOD she is the most important thing to me. I do love her boy and he seems to love me too! What more can I say its rewarding I do have EXPECTATIONS but even SUPERMAN lost faith once or twice in humanity…..how long can I or should I last! Gosh AlLaf I can so relate to you.

I will try to readers digest my story for you all!

I am in same boat I had had intrest in this girl two years ago. I learned she had just divorced a guy who fit my MO. We both were firemen to many simiarities I decided not to persue her. Over events of two years she kept popping in my life kinda in the way! I met her kid at church as I teach a young boys mentoring program that is camping based. Needless to say the kid is amazing! I still avoided her like the plauge!
Time passed situation arose I decided to try meet her and get this monkey off my back. Its been the most amazing time since. I have no kids and I truely love hers! I dont know how you parents do it. If I had my own my heart would jump out of my chest. I also love her lil does she know I have not said it to her yet! We have been dating a short time!
Her EX(the jerk) left her twisting in the wind and now im trying to come in after that! Yeah im REBOUND potential! She is worth the risk…..I feel much of times im trying to have to compete with him and im not even trying! Well that being said. I also know ill be second and im okay with that i love the boy too he deserves that love he even called me DAD once I cried. Might I add I rarely CRY!
She has had heart break and bad things go on in her life and maybe im trying to hard but im there ill be there im proving it and I will continue to do so. Im commited till she boots me. But I know no guy will care for her like im doing right now and not just to win her affection but her heart! Ill keep doing it way past any LTR that should come of it! Could I go find another single gal …..YES but I dont want to she Is more amazing than I can imagine!
So whats the problem…? She has not let me in. Its been three months not a KISS yet …..okay I can wait longer for that. She does not share affection much if at all! I tell her everday how beautiful she is ….. trust me SHE IS HOT! DROP DEAD GORGEOUS. She says she has attraction and not because I love her son either. So if she reached out for a hug it would make me feel better. She doesnt do that. Yeah it breaks my heart some to say it im going the 99% and I feel I get 1%. She tells me this will work out but action speak louder than words. Wow total turn around a girl said that to me once years and years back. My florist is becoming wealthy off me i get her flowers often …. I am not buying her affection ive told her that if she feels that way she needs to let me know! I am trying to fix things around the house and help out too! Anything that helps her helps me is the way I see it!
I need some RECOGNITION! Some assureance nothing is 100% but have faith. She is so smart so fast that im not sure how to remind her …. I am not perfect! Im not her EX….. Im a SINGLE CHILDLESS guy who has has nothing to worry about than himself who is falliing in love with her! I make consessions to the boy … granded he deserves alot. I just as for a small part of her Ill take left overs …..Im not being fed right now!
So she has had heart ache after heartache and pain too she was in bad wreck right before we got together. Picking up the physical pieces too! Her family support is near non existent I have loaned her mine! My family loves her thinks the world of her. I have gone out of my way to ask a favor for her that i would not ask of myself. Yeah I think im superman and can deal with it. I have to try she can potentially be the best thing in my life ever! Other than GOD she is the most important thing to me. I do love her boy and he seems to love me too! What more can I say its rewarding I do have EXPECTATIONS but even SUPERMAN lost faith once or twice in humanity…..how long can I or should I last! Gosh AlLaf I can so relate to you.

I will try to readers digest my story for you all!

I am in same boat I had had intrest in this girl two years ago. I learned she had just divorced a guy who fit my MO. We both were firemen to many simiarities I decided not to persue her. Over events of two years she kept popping in my life kinda in the way! I met her kid at church as I teach a young boys mentoring program that is camping based. Needless to say the kid is amazing! I still avoided her like the plauge!
Time passed situation arose I decided to try meet her and get this monkey off my back. Its been the most amazing time since. I have no kids and I truely love hers! I dont know how you parents do it. If I had my own my heart would jump out of my chest. I also love her lil does she know I have not said it to her yet! We have been dating a short time!
Her EX(the jerk) left her twisting in the wind and now im trying to come in after that! Yeah im REBOUND potential! She is worth the risk…..I feel much of times im trying to have to compete with him and im not even trying! Well that being said. I also know ill be second and im okay with that i love the boy too he deserves that love he even called me DAD once I cried. Might I add I rarely CRY!
She has had heart break and bad things go on in her life and maybe im trying to hard but im there ill be there im proving it and I will continue to do so. Im commited till she boots me. But I know no guy will care for her like im doing right now and not just to win her affection but her heart! Ill keep doing it way past any LTR that should come of it! Could I go find another single gal …..YES but I dont want to she Is more amazing than I can imagine!
So whats the problem…? She has not let me in. Its been three months not a KISS yet …..okay I can wait longer for that. She does not share affection much if at all! I tell her everday how beautiful she is ….. trust me SHE IS HOT! DROP DEAD GORGEOUS. She says she has attraction and not because I love her son either. So if she reached out for a hug it would make me feel better. She doesnt do that. Yeah it breaks my heart some to say it im going the 99% and I feel I get 1%. She tells me this will work out but action speak louder than words. Wow total turn around a girl said that to me once years and years back. My florist is becoming wealthy off me i get her flowers often …. I am not buying her affection ive told her that if she feels that way she needs to let me know! I am trying to fix things around the house and help out too! Anything that helps her helps me is the way I see it!
I need some RECOGNITION! Some assureance nothing is 100% but have faith. She is so smart so fast that im not sure how to remind her …. I am not perfect! Im not her EX….. Im a SINGLE CHILDLESS guy who has has nothing to worry about than himself who is falliing in love with her! I make consessions to the boy … granded he deserves alot. I just as for a small part of her Ill take left overs …..Im not being fed right now!
So she has had heart ache after heartache and pain too she was in bad wreck right before we got together. Picking up the physical pieces too! Her family support is near non existent I have loaned her mine! My family loves her thinks the world of her. I have gone out of my way to ask a favor for her that i would not ask of myself. Yeah I think im superman and can deal with it. I have to try she can potentially be the best thing in my life ever! Other than GOD she is the most important thing to me. I do love her boy and he seems to love me too! What more can I say its rewarding I do have EXPECTATIONS but even SUPERMAN lost faith once or twice in humanity…..how long can I or should I last!

]]> By: Sarahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/#comment-3810 Sara Sat, 11 Oct 2008 22:08:49 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=470#comment-3810 Thanks for writing! Thanks for writing!

]]> By: How to date a single mom, Part 1 | Ms. Single Mamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/#comment-2769 How to date a single mom, Part 1 | Ms. Single Mama Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:05:36 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=470#comment-2769 [...] fall in love.How to Date a Single Mom, Part 2 | Ms. Single Mama on How to date a single mom, Part 1How to Date a Single Mom, Part 3 | Ms. Single Mama on How to Date a Single Mom, Part 4How to date a single mom, part 4 | Ms. Single Mama on How to [...] [...] fall in love.How to Date a Single Mom, Part 2 | Ms. Single Mama on How to date a single mom, Part 1How to Date a Single Mom, Part 3 | Ms. Single Mama on How to Date a Single Mom, Part 4How to date a single mom, part 4 | Ms. Single Mama on How to [...]

]]> By: Loovya » Blog Archive » How to Date a Single Momhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/#comment-2761 Loovya » Blog Archive » How to Date a Single Mom Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:13:11 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=470#comment-2761 [...] get the girl. And what an amazing girl she is. Good luck!How to Date a Single Mom, Part 2How to Date a Single Mom, Part 3How to Date a Single Mom, Part 4 [Photo credit: PlanetPersonals.com]  [...] get the girl. And what an amazing girl she is. Good luck!How to Date a Single Mom, Part 2How to Date a Single Mom, Part 3How to Date a Single Mom, Part 4 [Photo credit: PlanetPersonals.com] 

]]> By: Beam me up, Scottie: To Denmark Please! « Ms. Single Mamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/#comment-1760 Beam me up, Scottie: To Denmark Please! « Ms. Single Mama Fri, 08 Aug 2008 13:42:11 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=470#comment-1760 [...] With this guy... [...] [...] With this guy… [...]

]]> By: Veronica Veronicahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/#comment-1759 Veronica Veronica Fri, 01 Aug 2008 13:02:01 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=470#comment-1759 The only males my two year old son spends any time around are my brother (who doesn't have a beard) and my step-dad (that does). Jack calls all guys without a beard "daddy" (that is what his kids call him after all), and all guys with a beard are "poppy" (the nickname the grandkids gave my step-dad). It was a tad disconcerting and embarrassing at first, but now I just laugh about it. The only males my two year old son spends any time around are my brother (who doesn’t have a beard) and my step-dad (that does).

Jack calls all guys without a beard “daddy” (that is what his kids call him after all), and all guys with a beard are “poppy” (the nickname the grandkids gave my step-dad).

It was a tad disconcerting and embarrassing at first, but now I just laugh about it.

]]> By: Tomorrow… « Ms. Single Mamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/#comment-1758 Tomorrow… « Ms. Single Mama Thu, 24 Jul 2008 04:41:40 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=470#comment-1758 [...] he does I may not be able to completely relax. Which means I may not be able to completely enjoy the Dane. Benjamin stress aside, I’m starting to get excited … only four weeks away now. I try [...] [...] he does I may not be able to completely relax. Which means I may not be able to completely enjoy the Dane. Benjamin stress aside, I’m starting to get excited … only four weeks away now. I try [...]

]]> By: How to Date a Single Mom, Part 4 « Ms. Single Mamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/#comment-1757 How to Date a Single Mom, Part 4 « Ms. Single Mama Tue, 15 Jul 2008 22:31:25 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=470#comment-1757 [...] How to Date a Single Mom, Part 3 (Thomas’s perspective) [...] [...] How to Date a Single Mom, Part 3 (Thomas’s perspective) [...]

]]> By: How to date the childless. « Ms. Single Mamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/#comment-1756 How to date the childless. « Ms. Single Mama Wed, 25 Jun 2008 21:28:32 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=470#comment-1756 [...] and Benjamin was just four-months-old I couldn’t imagine anyone joining our lives but they did and the relationships didn’t end because I’m a single mom, they ended because child or [...] [...] and Benjamin was just four-months-old I couldn’t imagine anyone joining our lives but they did and the relationships didn’t end because I’m a single mom, they ended because child or [...]

]]> By: Screw you Disney. « Ms. Single Mamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/29/how-to-date-a-single-mom-part-3/#comment-1755 Screw you Disney. « Ms. Single Mama Sun, 15 Jun 2008 03:21:06 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=470#comment-1755 [...] be brushing prince charmings aside for a man who is responsible, kind, compassionate and yes, sexy. And they do exist. They’re real men. But they’re not going to come kiss us and make it all better. We [...] [...] be brushing prince charmings aside for a man who is responsible, kind, compassionate and yes, sexy. And they do exist. They’re real men. But they’re not going to come kiss us and make it all better. We [...]

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