Comments on: Do you keep up with your ex on MySpace or Facebook? http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/ Single Mom Dating? Real advice from a real single mom. Tue, 14 Feb 2012 00:59:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: curiousohttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/#comment-15467 curiouso Fri, 22 Jan 2010 09:15:41 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=346#comment-15467 And, so, does he deceptively have it set so that only you cannot see certain photos, friends and posts? My gf would never friend me until the day we broke up to "prove" she wasnt hiding anything......yet she spent sooooooooooo much time on it and typing on it that I wondered How could this be so few posts after so much typing and laughing? This image my gf presented as being so benign and honest.....not so much. It turns out that she LOVED having guys flirt with her. Not that I saw much. But when I went through her posts as far back as possible I saw a flirty exchange with a male friend she met on a trip. All of a sudden the banter stopped. When I went to his site he had photos of her from the trip with them both being googly eyed. I didnt care...it was before me. Then another photo when she was visiting his city cross country. after she first met me. Maybe it was innocuous but it was in his apartment and it was just a single photo. But the fact that it stopped sudenly tells me she had started blocking or deleting posts and had just forgotten two. She was a real narcissist that will end up with STDs, divorced and resentful . She even asked me several times if I thought she had a big ego....as if to confirm her inkling! If only she had been faithful she could have had a good life with a guy who wanted more than a one night stand. Next! And, so, does he deceptively have it set so that only you cannot see certain photos, friends and posts? My gf would never friend me until the day we broke up to “prove” she wasnt hiding anything……yet she spent sooooooooooo much time on it and typing on it that I wondered How could this be so few posts after so much typing and laughing? This image my gf presented as being so benign and honest…..not so much. It turns out that she LOVED having guys flirt with her. Not that I saw much. But when I went through her posts as far back as possible I saw a flirty exchange with a male friend she met on a trip. All of a sudden the banter stopped. When I went to his site he had photos of her from the trip with them both being googly eyed. I didnt care…it was before me. Then another photo when she was visiting his city cross country. after she first met me. Maybe it was innocuous but it was in his apartment and it was just a single photo. But the fact that it stopped sudenly tells me she had started blocking or deleting posts and had just forgotten two. She was a real narcissist that will end up with STDs, divorced and resentful . She even asked me several times if I thought she had a big ego….as if to confirm her inkling! If only she had been faithful she could have had a good life with a guy who wanted more than a one night stand. Next!

]]> By: Emperorhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/#comment-14257 Emperor Sun, 08 Nov 2009 09:02:01 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=346#comment-14257 I'm undecided about this. I try not to lose touch with my friends, no matter what our circumstance is. But for the Ex-Factor, I'd say your best to delete them. If it's over, its over. Sending an email is the equivalent of dialing drunk to me. It's pathetic, lame, and will only show you how little respect that this person had for you in the first place. And this is coming from a point where I got in contact with an Ex around ten months after she dumped me. I was doing fine for at least three months, but when I reconnected, it brings back alot of emotional stuff. So it's best anyhow. Plus, in the end, if one person dumped another, then someone doesnt deserve to remain a friend. I’m undecided about this. I try not to lose touch with my friends, no matter what our circumstance is. But for the Ex-Factor, I’d say your best to delete them. If it’s over, its over. Sending an email is the equivalent of dialing drunk to me. It’s pathetic, lame, and will only show you how little respect that this person had for you in the first place.

And this is coming from a point where I got in contact with an Ex around ten months after she dumped me. I was doing fine for at least three months, but when I reconnected, it brings back alot of emotional stuff. So it’s best anyhow. Plus, in the end, if one person dumped another, then someone doesnt deserve to remain a friend.

]]> By: Krishttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/#comment-12455 Kris Thu, 27 Aug 2009 19:13:59 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=346#comment-12455 Ive never really checked any of my ex's myspaces/facebooks often. I can remember one ex who i remained friends with who I checked from time to time but I eventually deleted them and lost touch. But my recent ex whom I was with for almost a year, our relationship and friend both ended tragicaly and horribly. She so called hates me, but doesnt delete me off of her myspace or aim or anything. I check her myspace constantly, and she checks mine constantly. Its kind of weird...like, why not just talk? Whatever Ive never really checked any of my ex’s myspaces/facebooks often. I can remember one ex who i remained friends with who I checked from time to time but I eventually deleted them and lost touch. But my recent ex whom I was with for almost a year, our relationship and friend both ended tragicaly and horribly. She so called hates me, but doesnt delete me off of her myspace or aim or anything. I check her myspace constantly, and she checks mine constantly. Its kind of weird…like, why not just talk? Whatever

]]> By: Natural Menopausehttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/#comment-10960 Natural Menopause Mon, 13 Jul 2009 01:03:50 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=346#comment-10960 Oh, I used to have my ex-husbands password for his email and it was so fun, until I was a total moron and slipped that I knew it... and he changed it. That was really fun. Oh, I used to have my ex-husbands password for his email and it was so fun, until I was a total moron and slipped that I knew it… and he changed it. That was really fun.

]]> By: Angel Blue Eyeshttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/#comment-10957 Angel Blue Eyes Mon, 13 Jul 2009 01:02:27 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=346#comment-10957 very nice post.. i really like it thanks!!! very nice post.. i really like it thanks!!!

]]> By: Laurahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/#comment-10429 Laura Tue, 16 Jun 2009 22:32:30 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=346#comment-10429 Facebook drives me crazy. I found my son's father, who took off before he was even born, on there. What makes it worse is I know he is living really close by. We aren't friends and I can't see his page but it still bothers me that it's even there. My son is now 13 and soon will be wanting to know about this man... and I have nothing to say. Facebook drives me crazy. I found my son's father, who took off before he was even born, on there. What makes it worse is I know he is living really close by. We aren't friends and I can't see his page but it still bothers me that it's even there. My son is now 13 and soon will be wanting to know about this man… and I have nothing to say.

]]> By: mischttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/#comment-7677 misc Sat, 21 Mar 2009 01:20:12 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=346#comment-7677 when do you change your status to single from in a relationship after you breakup? I was kinda shocked when my ex as of 2 days ago already changed it !dang put yourself back on the market don't wait another second. when do you change your status to single from in a relationship after you breakup? I was kinda shocked when my ex as of 2 days ago already changed it !dang put yourself back on the market don't wait another second.

]]> By: kevinhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/#comment-1121 kevin Thu, 01 May 2008 19:31:24 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=346#comment-1121 Yeah, I try not to write about my personal goings on because I know my son's mother will be all over my a*s*s. And its not like I'm doing anything anyway. But I've got a widget on my web site that lets me track who was there (city, time of visit, pages visited, exit pages, etc.) and i know my son's mother has visted pages of females who are listed on my blogroll. Yeah, I try not to write about my personal goings on because I know my son’s mother will be all over my a*s*s. And its not like I’m doing anything anyway. But I’ve got a widget on my web site that lets me track who was there (city, time of visit, pages visited, exit pages, etc.) and i know my son’s mother has visted pages of females who are listed on my blogroll.

]]> By: mssinglemamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/#comment-1111 mssinglemama Wed, 16 Apr 2008 01:40:48 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=346#comment-1111 These stories are all fantastic! Thanks for sharing and I'm glad I'm not alone. But I lose interest. After a few weeks I just stop checking...but for some reason I don't delete them. Because every few months, I want to see what they're up to...hmmm... This virtual world is nuts. These stories are all fantastic! Thanks for sharing and I’m glad I’m not alone. But I lose interest. After a few weeks I just stop checking…but for some reason I don’t delete them. Because every few months, I want to see what they’re up to…hmmm…

This virtual world is nuts.

]]> By: Shannonhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/14/do-you-keep-up-with-your-ex-on-myspace-or-facebook/#comment-1112 Shannon Tue, 15 Apr 2008 13:38:02 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=346#comment-1112 For me it's the opposite. I unfortunately found my husbands ex-the one that was dating him in between the two times that I did. Yeah she was the rebound. Ha ha to her. But I can't help but look and see her antics and see exactly WHY it is he's with me. It feels good to see her be so juvenile. Oh, I used to have my ex-husbands password for his email and it was so fun, until I was a total moron and slipped that I knew it... and he changed it. That was really fun. For me it’s the opposite. I unfortunately found my husbands ex-the one that was dating him in between the two times that I did. Yeah she was the rebound. Ha ha to her. But I can’t help but look and see her antics and see exactly WHY it is he’s with me. It feels good to see her be so juvenile.
Oh, I used to have my ex-husbands password for his email and it was so fun, until I was a total moron and slipped that I knew it… and he changed it. That was really fun.

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