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> <channel><title>Comments on: OMG! I think I&#8217;m moving to the burbs!</title> <atom:link href="http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/</link> <description>Single Mom Dating? Real advice from a real single mom.</description> <lastBuildDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 16:28:02 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1</generator> <item><title>By: Bavani</title><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/#comment-1083</link> <dc:creator>Bavani</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 03:54:55 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-1083</guid> <description>I just read this post :) - I think it&#039;s awesome that you are buying this place :) - a new chapter in your life - a lifetime of memories waiting to be made with your little man, Benjamin :)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just read this post <img
src='http://mssinglemama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8211; I think it&#8217;s awesome that you are buying this place <img
src='http://mssinglemama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8211; a new chapter in your life &#8211; a lifetime of memories waiting to be made with your little man, Benjamin <img
src='http://mssinglemama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: dadshouse</title><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/#comment-1082</link> <dc:creator>dadshouse</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 03:49:39 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-1082</guid> <description>MSM - We&#039;ll FedEx a box of Depends ahead of time...</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MSM &#8211; We&#8217;ll FedEx a box of Depends ahead of time&#8230;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: The Queen Chimes In</title><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/#comment-1081</link> <dc:creator>The Queen Chimes In</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 03:03:58 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-1081</guid> <description>YOU ROCK!
Say it and do it!
You are fully supported!
Go On Girl!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>YOU ROCK!<br
/> Say it and do it!<br
/> You are fully supported!<br
/> Go On Girl!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: mssinglemama</title><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/#comment-1080</link> <dc:creator>mssinglemama</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 01:01:49 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-1080</guid> <description>Cato - just met with the attorney this afternoon and we went over all of this...he&#039;s top notch. And I&#039;m all about locking down the deal. To avoid anything I&#039;m going to personally deliver my offer and just say - this is it. I can&#039;t negotiate. I didn&#039;t go much lower than her asking price but am asking her to cover closing costs and help with my down payment.
Oh - and I am asking for the draperies and of course, all of the appliances.
Shannon - I know...this house has no room for a man, so if I ever do find one I&#039;d have to sell. Might love the house more than I could ever love a man. Tee hee...well, maybe not, but I&#039;m sure you know what I mean.
Tks Lausana, DH and SMS.
Oh and if you two actually came out here I would pee myself.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cato &#8211; just met with the attorney this afternoon and we went over all of this&#8230;he&#8217;s top notch. And I&#8217;m all about locking down the deal. To avoid anything I&#8217;m going to personally deliver my offer and just say &#8211; this is it. I can&#8217;t negotiate. I didn&#8217;t go much lower than her asking price but am asking her to cover closing costs and help with my down payment.</p><p>Oh &#8211; and I am asking for the draperies and of course, all of the appliances.</p><p>Shannon &#8211; I know&#8230;this house has no room for a man, so if I ever do find one I&#8217;d have to sell. Might love the house more than I could ever love a man. Tee hee&#8230;well, maybe not, but I&#8217;m sure you know what I mean.</p><p>Tks Lausana, DH and SMS.</p><p>Oh and if you two actually came out here I would pee myself.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: singlemomseeking</title><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/#comment-1079</link> <dc:creator>singlemomseeking</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 00:09:58 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-1079</guid> <description>Good luck Mama!
I love how fast you move! Watch out world, big dreams ahead!
P.S. Since Dad&#039;s House and I live near the same airport, we&#039;ll fly to the house warming together, okay?</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck Mama!</p><p>I love how fast you move! Watch out world, big dreams ahead!</p><p>P.S. Since Dad&#8217;s House and I live near the same airport, we&#8217;ll fly to the house warming together, okay?</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: dadshouse</title><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/#comment-1078</link> <dc:creator>dadshouse</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 17:28:19 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-1078</guid> <description>Congrats! I love the part about being a single parent and loving something and not having to hear a partner say what they don&#039;t like.. one of the up sides to going it solo, for sure.
When&#039;s the house warming? :-)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats! I love the part about being a single parent and loving something and not having to hear a partner say what they don&#8217;t like.. one of the up sides to going it solo, for sure.</p><p>When&#8217;s the house warming? <img
src='http://mssinglemama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: lausana</title><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/#comment-1077</link> <dc:creator>lausana</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 14:38:04 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-1077</guid> <description>Congratulations!!  What an accomplishment :)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations!!  What an accomplishment <img
src='http://mssinglemama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Shannon</title><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/#comment-1076</link> <dc:creator>Shannon</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 14:26:20 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-1076</guid> <description>Cato&#039;s help is priceless.  It&#039;s hard not to get swept up when you fall in love with a house.  I can not wait to see pictures!  It sounds similar to the house I just sold...(tearing up here) and did we ever love that house!  It was perfect!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cato&#8217;s help is priceless.  It&#8217;s hard not to get swept up when you fall in love with a house.  I can not wait to see pictures!  It sounds similar to the house I just sold&#8230;(tearing up here) and did we ever love that house!  It was perfect!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Cato</title><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/#comment-1075</link> <dc:creator>Cato</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 12:34:20 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-1075</guid> <description>Especially in a hot market, it&#039;s important to avoid being strung along while a seller waits for a higher offer (even if you came in at the asking price) -- the seller is emotionally involved (this is undoubtedly the largest transaction she&#039;s engaged in other than buying the house) and does not have a broker to guide her through the negotiation process.  Your goal (in addition to paying the lowest price possible for what you want) is to get the seller to contract quickly so that you lock in your deal.
If attorneys are involved in your state (some states it&#039;s all done by the title companies with standard contracts), then even if there is a local form contract in use, there will be negotiable provisions -- what stays and what goes (light fixtures like chandeliers? refrigerator? stove? washer/dryer?, etc., even sometimes some furniture), who&#039;s responsible for for what, representations and warranties (may be mandated, but there are always local practice considerations), closing conditions (what if a problem like a fire or sewer break or leaking roof occurs between signing and closing?), contingencies (mortgage and inspection are minimums, but how long do you have to get the mortgage nailed down).
Your attorney should guide you through all of this, but may not (especially if there is a low fixed fee charged in your area for simple real estate closings).   Make sure your attorney is local to the area and knows the market.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Especially in a hot market, it&#8217;s important to avoid being strung along while a seller waits for a higher offer (even if you came in at the asking price) &#8212; the seller is emotionally involved (this is undoubtedly the largest transaction she&#8217;s engaged in other than buying the house) and does not have a broker to guide her through the negotiation process.  Your goal (in addition to paying the lowest price possible for what you want) is to get the seller to contract quickly so that you lock in your deal.</p><p>If attorneys are involved in your state (some states it&#8217;s all done by the title companies with standard contracts), then even if there is a local form contract in use, there will be negotiable provisions &#8212; what stays and what goes (light fixtures like chandeliers? refrigerator? stove? washer/dryer?, etc., even sometimes some furniture), who&#8217;s responsible for for what, representations and warranties (may be mandated, but there are always local practice considerations), closing conditions (what if a problem like a fire or sewer break or leaking roof occurs between signing and closing?), contingencies (mortgage and inspection are minimums, but how long do you have to get the mortgage nailed down).</p><p>Your attorney should guide you through all of this, but may not (especially if there is a low fixed fee charged in your area for simple real estate closings).   Make sure your attorney is local to the area and knows the market.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: mssinglemama</title><link>http://mssinglemama.com/2008/04/10/omg-i-think-im-moving-to-the-burbs/#comment-1074</link> <dc:creator>mssinglemama</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 12:11:22 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-1074</guid> <description>Kat - tks for reading! And you found me through Dooce? Awesome. She&#039;s my hero.
Cato - wow! Tks...hadn&#039;t though of the offer expiration idea. Thanks again. And yes, I&#039;m pre-qualified. We have to get inspections - state law. My emotions are fairly in check - it&#039;s a super hot neighborhood and we haven&#039;t seen prices this low in years and years - so if I wait - might never be able to get a house here.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kat &#8211; tks for reading! And you found me through Dooce? Awesome. She&#8217;s my hero.</p><p>Cato &#8211; wow! Tks&#8230;hadn&#8217;t though of the offer expiration idea. Thanks again. And yes, I&#8217;m pre-qualified. We have to get inspections &#8211; state law. My emotions are fairly in check &#8211; it&#8217;s a super hot neighborhood and we haven&#8217;t seen prices this low in years and years &#8211; so if I wait &#8211; might never be able to get a house here.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
