Comments on: Single moms and the men who love us.

By: HonestGal

HonestGal — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 13:19:22 +0000

What a load of nonsense. Being a single mother is not ‘cool’ or ’sexy’ or ‘awsome’ or any of the rest of it. “We are not easy and that makes us all the more special” In whos eyes? Certainly not in the eyes or 99% of normal men who have a very strong nature-given instinct against rearing another man’s child.
P.S. I don’t expect this will be posted, even though it has been written by a single mom.

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By: jam

jam — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 20:09:05 +0000

i love this post. it helped me remind that I am as much as special as I was before. I have this freind who treats me special and runaway when he founds i got pregnant. Myebe is one of those jerks that just to play with me. Now i know.

By: sbates

sbates — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 19:23:30 +0000

I am a single mom of 2. I was raised by a single mom. I agree that when it comes to finding the right guy, sticking to our “no time for games” policy pays off big time!!! Men are drawn to women that will make good “WIVES” and partying hard and sleeping around is not what they are attracted to. They want to settle down, and being a single mom you ARE supposed to be settled down. That is if you don’t pawn your kids off on other ppl so you can do whatever. Thanks Again

By: babymamadrama

babymamadrama — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 20:45:14 +0000

Yes!! thank you for that uplifting blog! Man did i need it!!!! ive been a single mom since i was seven 1/2 months pregnant, and the reality is soo much harder than anyone could prepare you for. dating becomes complicated and delicate. i still have faith my Dream Man is out there, but most of the time i am too tired to try to find him! we gotta stay strong, we are not easy and that makes us all the more special !

By: mssinglemama

mssinglemama — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 11:45:04 +0000

Awesome!!! That was my point entirely and it's very true. Trust me… the only difference about being a single mom and single and childless is that we attract the good ones – men who realize how awesome we are for taking all of this on solo.

Any stigma is all in your head – not theirs…

By: janey

janey — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 03:09:43 +0000

Ahh said so well! I can't help but feel a little more desirable after reading this

By: Janet

Janet — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 01:45:21 +0000

Awesome post. I'm all pumped up now!

By: LauraKidsLinked

LauraKidsLinked — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 18:14:59 +0000

Being a single mom and dating is tough! I was a single mom with a son for almost 8 years. Patience and staying true to what you are looking for is key. Just when I was about to give up all hope a great guy came into my life that I didnt have to settle or lower my standards for. My current boyfriend of a year and a half considered himself someone who would never date a single mom, however after we met and he learned more about me and what I was all about the relationship grew. My relationship with him is the most strong, developed, stable relationship that I have ever been in and the role he plays in my son's life is a dedicated, devoted mentor.. Be patient ladies, theres a guy out there who understands you, your needs and is perfect for you!

By: liv

liv — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 18:10:08 +0000

it's like i said to my boyfriend over lunch last saturday, "it's so nice to have a kid-free day. we haven't had a kid-free day in AGES." he looked at me. i said, "wow. i bet last year you would have never thought you'd hear your girlfriend say that!"