Comments on: Love vs. Lust http://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/26/love-vs-lust/ Single Mom Dating? Real advice from a real single mom. Tue, 22 May 2012 16:28:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Clairehttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/26/love-vs-lust/#comment-587 Claire Sat, 17 May 2008 16:24:48 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=224#comment-587 Thank you soo much, you have helped me a great deal. A guy i went to school with moved away after we finished school and recently moved back, we had always kept in contact and I had always liked him, then went he came back we met up a few times, nothing happened. The thing is I'm in a long term realtionship and I couldn't understand why I couldn't stop thinking about my friend from school. This has helped me to realise that what i have with my boyfriend is love, yet what I feel for the old school friend is lust. This has helped me realise what my boyfriend means to me and how we can both be ourselves together. I'm so lucky to have hhim and to feel this way about someone! Once again thank you! Thank you soo much, you have helped me a great deal.

A guy i went to school with moved away after we finished school and recently moved back, we had always kept in contact and I had always liked him, then went he came back we met up a few times, nothing happened.

The thing is I’m in a long term realtionship and I couldn’t understand why I couldn’t stop thinking about my friend from school.

This has helped me to realise that what i have with my boyfriend is love, yet what I feel for the old school friend is lust.

This has helped me realise what my boyfriend means to me and how we can both be ourselves together. I’m so lucky to have hhim and to feel this way about someone!

Once again thank you!

]]> By: mediakemihttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/26/love-vs-lust/#comment-586 mediakemi Tue, 26 Feb 2008 22:14:33 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=224#comment-586 Girl, you are the BEST! Keep on keeping on. Just read your comment at Celebrity Single mom. E-mail me anytime. Girl, you are the BEST! Keep on keeping on. Just read your comment at Celebrity Single mom. E-mail me anytime.

]]> By: mediakemihttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/26/love-vs-lust/#comment-585 mediakemi Tue, 26 Feb 2008 21:33:52 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=224#comment-585 Tell you the truth Ms Single Mama, it's LUST for their MONEY. I make money but I could use someone else's. I have always been the wage earner the man lived off of! My opinion to the ladies. Laugh it out and get it on the search engines! Tell you the truth Ms Single Mama, it’s LUST for their MONEY. I make money but I could use someone else’s. I have always been the wage earner the man lived off of! My opinion to the ladies. Laugh it out and get it on the search engines!

]]> By: mediakemihttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/26/love-vs-lust/#comment-584 mediakemi Tue, 26 Feb 2008 21:07:14 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=224#comment-584 Congrats Ms Single Mama. You are the Single Mom of the week on CSM. Celebrity Single Moms was launched Oscar Night. Check it out. I have also added you to my links. I read your entire blog! Excellent. Welcome to our world! http://celebritysinglemoms.blogspot.com/ I am a TV and Radio News Reporter based in Toronto, Canada and do a lot of freelance media work. Kemi Olunloyo Joshua Managing Editor Keminications Media 647-344-5390 mediakemi@rogers.com Congrats Ms Single Mama. You are the Single Mom of the week on CSM. Celebrity Single Moms was launched Oscar Night. Check it out. I have also added you to my links. I read your entire blog! Excellent. Welcome to our world!

http://celebritysinglemoms.blogspot.com/

I am a TV and Radio News Reporter based in Toronto, Canada and do a lot of freelance media work.

Kemi Olunloyo Joshua
Managing Editor
Keminications Media
647-344-5390
mediakemi@rogers.com

]]> By: mssinglemamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/26/love-vs-lust/#comment-583 mssinglemama Tue, 26 Feb 2008 13:06:04 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=224#comment-583 Hanie - Yep...the flaws disappear and you ignore warnings from family and friends. Lauren - so glad you can relate. Keep it up! For me it's easy not to lust after my Ex. I just think about all of the money he owes me. It's just been too long now - don't think I could ever, ever see him as anything other than Benjamin's father. It's like our marriage is a distant memory. I agree...have yet to feel reall love myself - looks like Mimi loves us though. Hi there Mimi. Hanie – Yep…the flaws disappear and you ignore warnings from family and friends.

Lauren – so glad you can relate. Keep it up! For me it’s easy not to lust after my Ex. I just think about all of the money he owes me. It’s just been too long now – don’t think I could ever, ever see him as anything other than Benjamin’s father. It’s like our marriage is a distant memory.

I agree…have yet to feel reall love myself – looks like Mimi loves us though. Hi there Mimi.

]]> By: mimihttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/26/love-vs-lust/#comment-582 mimi Tue, 26 Feb 2008 07:12:58 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=224#comment-582 hi .i love u hi .i love u

]]> By: Laurenhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/26/love-vs-lust/#comment-581 Lauren Tue, 26 Feb 2008 05:20:50 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=224#comment-581 I think I've only felt lust for guys I've been involved with. Our relationship will become physical and all of a sudden I'm head over heels with a false sense of "love" for the guy. My baby's father has so many flaws, yet even after I got pregnant I would still try and look past them and focus on his good qualities. (But I'm doing a much better job of not lusting after him now!) Basically, I completely agree with what you've listed as "when it's lust," because all of those hold true for me as well. I don't think I've ever felt love, but I know that when I do feel it, it'll be completely unlike the way I've felt for every other guy I've been with. I think I’ve only felt lust for guys I’ve been involved with. Our relationship will become physical and all of a sudden I’m head over heels with a false sense of “love” for the guy. My baby’s father has so many flaws, yet even after I got pregnant I would still try and look past them and focus on his good qualities. (But I’m doing a much better job of not lusting after him now!) Basically, I completely agree with what you’ve listed as “when it’s lust,” because all of those hold true for me as well.

I don’t think I’ve ever felt love, but I know that when I do feel it, it’ll be completely unlike the way I’ve felt for every other guy I’ve been with.

]]> By: Haniehttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/26/love-vs-lust/#comment-580 Hanie Tue, 26 Feb 2008 05:14:38 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=224#comment-580 Oh! love this post. When its lust, its 99% sexual thoughts (thats why its lust)! You tend to overlook a lot of flaws that might bring damage to you. Oh! love this post. When its lust, its 99% sexual thoughts (thats why its lust)! You tend to overlook a lot of flaws that might bring damage to you.

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