Comments on: How to Date a Single Mom, Part 2 http://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/ Single Mom Dating? Real advice from a real single mom. Tue, 14 Feb 2012 00:59:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: alonsohttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/#comment-34430 alonso Sat, 08 Oct 2011 07:26:07 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=207#comment-34430 Im 19 young and im in a relationship with a single mom thats 28. Shes very attractive and hot as hell. Shes been marry and now she is not with her ex for almost 5 years of 8 years of marriage. She told me that shes always dated but never more then that. The point is we have had sex a week n a half straight, but shes never done that with others and all. I just wanna know if shes with me because of me or cus im young and shes desperate n wants me to be a dad to her kids. Im 19 young and im in a relationship with a single mom thats 28. Shes very attractive and hot as hell. Shes been marry and now she is not with her ex for almost 5 years of 8 years of marriage. She told me that shes always dated but never more then that. The point is we have had sex a week n a half straight, but shes never done that with others and all. I just wanna know if shes with me because of me or cus im young and shes desperate n wants me to be a dad to her kids.

]]> By: Natural Menopausehttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/#comment-10958 Natural Menopause Mon, 13 Jul 2009 01:03:34 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=207#comment-10958 I can see why you guys can filter out the schleppes pretty quick...if I didn't really ____ her (notice I keep that blank at the moment...maybe I'm a little on gaurd too about just how smitten with her I am), I wouldn't even bother, because it's not an easy road to navigate. Totally worth it though. I can see why you guys can filter out the schleppes pretty quick…if I didn't really ____ her (notice I keep that blank at the moment…maybe I'm a little on gaurd too about just how smitten with her I am), I wouldn't even bother, because it's not an easy road to navigate.
Totally worth it though.

]]> By: Angel Blue Eyeshttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/#comment-10955 Angel Blue Eyes Mon, 13 Jul 2009 01:02:30 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=207#comment-10955 interesting post thanks!!!! interesting post thanks!!!!

]]> By: NotADadhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/#comment-8965 NotADad Sun, 26 Apr 2009 16:44:31 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=207#comment-8965 Not dating pussies is one good reason women date so many assholes and dicks. There are only 3 orifices down there you know .... Not dating pussies is one good reason women date so many assholes and dicks. There are only 3 orifices down there you know ….

]]> By: RMhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/#comment-4281 RM Thu, 06 Nov 2008 22:14:30 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=207#comment-4281 OK. Recently I stumbled upon a friend through facebook who I haven't seen in about 15 years. She and I are both about the same age, and bothe are single parents. Both of our marriages ended about 5 months ago. Lately we have been talking up a storm on the phone, but that's it. I am so scared to ask her out...I don't get nervous around women at all normally.. She is caring, beautiful, and one of the most amazing people that I have ever had the pleasure of being acquainted with. But I am really nervous. I am not really sure if she is just looking for a friend at this point, or is possibly interested in something more... She is the first person I talk to in the AM, and the last I talk to at night. How should I approach this situation? We have been talking steadily for two weeks now. Just yesterday, she put me on the phone with her daughter, which I though was kind of a big step towards trust on her part...any advice? I really want to be able to take care of her... OK. Recently I stumbled upon a friend through facebook who I haven’t seen in about 15 years. She and I are both about the same age, and bothe are single parents. Both of our marriages ended about 5 months ago. Lately we have been talking up a storm on the phone, but that’s it. I am so scared to ask her out…I don’t get nervous around women at all normally.. She is caring, beautiful, and one of the most amazing people that I have ever had the pleasure of being acquainted with. But I am really nervous. I am not really sure if she is just looking for a friend at this point, or is possibly interested in something more… She is the first person I talk to in the AM, and the last I talk to at night. How should I approach this situation? We have been talking steadily for two weeks now. Just yesterday, she put me on the phone with her daughter, which I though was kind of a big step towards trust on her part…any advice? I really want to be able to take care of her…

]]> By: milohttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/#comment-545 milo Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:37:39 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=207#comment-545 Yeah and I hear you...she throws the concrete wall up sometimes, and I understand why, so it doesn't bother me as much as a guy who just doesn't get it - or worse, just doesn't care. I can see why you guys can filter out the schleppes pretty quick...if I didn't really ____ her (notice I keep that blank at the moment...maybe I'm a little on gaurd too about just how smitten with her I am), I wouldn't even bother, because it's not an easy road to navigate. Totally worth it though. Yeah and I hear you…she throws the concrete wall up sometimes, and I understand why, so it doesn’t bother me as much as a guy who just doesn’t get it – or worse, just doesn’t care.

I can see why you guys can filter out the schleppes pretty quick…if I didn’t really ____ her (notice I keep that blank at the moment…maybe I’m a little on gaurd too about just how smitten with her I am), I wouldn’t even bother, because it’s not an easy road to navigate.
Totally worth it though.

]]> By: mssinglemamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/#comment-544 mssinglemama Tue, 25 Mar 2008 13:36:51 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=207#comment-544 I think we all have Milo. But she's dating you right? So that's a good step. Patience my friend. Patience. Sounds like you're doing and saying all of the right things. I think we all have Milo. But she’s dating you right? So that’s a good step. Patience my friend. Patience. Sounds like you’re doing and saying all of the right things.

]]> By: milohttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/#comment-543 milo Tue, 25 Mar 2008 12:43:58 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=207#comment-543 Just an add-on question to that...Have you single-moms out there gone through the "I'm never dating again" stage? Because I'm pretty sure that's where she is right now. Just an add-on question to that…Have you single-moms out there gone through the “I’m never dating again” stage? Because I’m pretty sure that’s where she is right now.

]]> By: milohttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/#comment-542 milo Tue, 25 Mar 2008 12:35:41 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=207#comment-542 Just saw these comments, and yes, I would agree that single mom's don't want to date pu$$ies - as far as I can tell, no women do! But at the same time I'm not gonna push a great girl away who obviously has had a bad streak going with guys. I just try to be there for her, listen to her, make her laugh (occasionaly at my expense), show concern and interest in her daughter, and let her go at her own speed. I'm no wimp, but I'm no fool either, and it's clear in this situation I'm not the one in the driver''s seat. What more can a guy do than that? I've said in not so many words that if she's not interested all she's gotta do is say the word and I'll back off - and I've seen her do it first hand to several guys she wasn't into...haven't gotten a pink-slip yet, so all I can do is be patient and keep getting to know the woman behind the single-mom. Maybe that's the "pu$$y" approach...time we'll tell...but that's the only one I got right now. Just saw these comments, and yes, I would agree that single mom’s don’t want to date pu$$ies – as far as I can tell, no women do!

But at the same time I’m not gonna push a great girl away who obviously has had a bad streak going with guys. I just try to be there for her, listen to her, make her laugh (occasionaly at my expense), show concern and interest in her daughter, and let her go at her own speed.
I’m no wimp, but I’m no fool either, and it’s clear in this situation I’m not the one in the driver”s seat.

What more can a guy do than that? I’ve said in not so many words that if she’s not interested all she’s gotta do is say the word and I’ll back off – and I’ve seen her do it first hand to several guys she wasn’t into…haven’t gotten a pink-slip yet, so all I can do is be patient and keep getting to know the woman behind the single-mom.

Maybe that’s the “pu$$y” approach…time we’ll tell…but that’s the only one I got right now.

]]> By: mssinglemamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/02/21/how-to-date-a-single-mom-2/#comment-541 mssinglemama Tue, 26 Feb 2008 20:51:03 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/?p=207#comment-541 So you want him to take matters into his own hands? But respect your boundaries at the same time. Not take offense to the fact that you're busy...and to above all - treat you like a single woman - not a mom. I hear ya! So you want him to take matters into his own hands? But respect your boundaries at the same time. Not take offense to the fact that you’re busy…and to above all – treat you like a single woman – not a mom. I hear ya!

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