Comments on: What women really want.

By: what women want men

what women want men — Wed, 06 Oct 2010 14:44:25 +0000

Nice website and great information. There is a lot of mis information on what women want from men that I have found, so it

By: euphonos

euphonos — Wed, 13 Feb 2008 04:00:08 +0000

Women want honesty – it can be hard to take at times but in the long run its far better. Scenario….guy meets women (single mom or not) and says, “Hi, you’re gorgeous!”….she’s flattered and says she thinks he’s a bit of alright too. They hang out and he says, “…well I bet you’re wondering what I’m thinking about…”….she says yes and he goes on…”I’m really just interested in a quick roll in the back of my car. It’ll be fun for me, probably too quick for you but that’s all about I’m up for. No commitment, no phone calls, I’ll probably forget your name before I’ve driven off!”

Could be the same if it was a women talking. Honesty can be frightening but it sure makes life simpler. I’ve always been the sort of woman who likes a bit of mystery but tends to get straight to the point eventually. I don’t find it hard to say, “I like you. If you think you’d be interested in more than a casual aquaintance, let me know.” In fact, if I hadn’t said that to my husband, we probably wouldn’t have gotten together – he was way too nervous to say anything!

I’m making a bit of a joke out of it but I think you get what I mean.

By: mssinglemama

mssinglemama — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 21:10:21 +0000

Good addition Random Esquire. I can’t believe I left that off because it’s one of those questions I always ask the men in my life – “why do you love me?” I want details. Ha. Tks again!

Jenny – you’re not a freak.

Sam – definitely chocolate…although for me, it would be white chocolate.

By: randomesq

randomesq — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 18:40:21 +0000

If I may be so presumptuous…

One thing that I think I have learned about what women want is that they don’t just want to know you love them – they want to know WHY you love THEM in particular.

I try not to just say, “I love you.” I try to be more specific and say something like, “I love you because you always sound happy to hear from me.”

That’s my two cents on the matter.

By: Sam

Sam — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 17:47:02 +0000

I think we all need chocolate as well.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 17:46:43 +0000

Yeah, it was a joke, but only in the best way. *wink*

Seriously, though, reading my last comment now kinda makes me sound like a freak, doesn’t it…..I was just trying to express the idea that when people mess around with single moms, there’s an equal and opposite reaction that results. The impact of that reaction lasts, literally, for years and not always in the prettiest way.

Still, I’ll try harder to keep my epic sentiments in check. No sense scaring people unnecessarily.

By: mssinglemama

mssinglemama — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 12:20:21 +0000

Definitely Jenny – check out that link with more tips for men dating us…I elaborate into this a bit more. That’s what made “dating” so hard for me – the games. They’re just a pain in the ass.

The children spotting them on the street part was a joke, right? It’s early in the morning my sense of humor hasn’t kicked in yet. If so – very, very funny.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 03:41:42 +0000

I think, for the most part, you’ve got it covered. The only thing I’d add: Single moms don’t play games. Men who can’t be real can’t be in our lives, and they certainly can’t be in our children’s lives. Try to jerk a savvy single mom around, guys, and you will always lose. What’s more, we will teach our children how to spot you on the street, publicly despise you, and condemn you to the lonely, sterile life you dread with every fibre of your being.

Don’t mess around with single moms. We are raising your replacements.

(What can I say, a little fear of the Goddess is a healthy thing…)