Comments on: Do men really care if you’re a single mom? http://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/ Single Mom Dating? Real advice from a real single mom. Mon, 21 May 2012 18:45:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Nick Stanhamhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-48193 Nick Stanham Mon, 13 Feb 2012 02:01:15 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-48193 I would like to thank everyone who has sent me kind messages regarding the posts of littlevoice, through facebook etc. I hope it shows why men like me now longer date single mums. I would like to thank everyone who has sent me kind messages regarding the posts of littlevoice, through facebook etc. I hope it shows why men like me now longer date single mums.

]]> By: quiet observerhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-46607 quiet observer Sat, 28 Jan 2012 23:02:58 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-46607 Another sign of a messed up society. If single because of death of spouse or a really bad marriage, that is understood. But a single mom by choice? That really sucks. I don't EVER date a single mom, unless she is a widow, adoptive parent, or from an unfortunate divorce. The thought of having another man in my family is a big turn off. Another sign of a messed up society. If single because of death of spouse or a really bad marriage, that is understood. But a single mom by choice? That really sucks. I don’t EVER date a single mom, unless she is a widow, adoptive parent, or from an unfortunate divorce. The thought of having another man in my family is a big turn off.

]]> By: Nick Stanhamhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-35502 Nick Stanham Sun, 23 Oct 2011 10:04:59 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-35502 Hi Chris, you've hit the nail on the head with the reason why men don't want to date single mothers. My advice sadly, is that it won't get any better, it will only get worse. I was given that advice and wished I'd listened but I chose to stay. I don't know why relationships with single mothers end up with us males being the 'doormat' but it always seems to be the same. I guess you're quite passive like me, and feel this is what you deserve. You deserve better, get your stuff together arrange to stay somewhere and never ever look back. Get yourself a nice single girl with no emotional baggage and live happily ever after. Hi Chris, you’ve hit the nail on the head with the reason why men don’t want to date single mothers. My advice sadly, is that it won’t get any better, it will only get worse. I was given that advice and wished I’d listened but I chose to stay.

I don’t know why relationships with single mothers end up with us males being the ‘doormat’ but it always seems to be the same. I guess you’re quite passive like me, and feel this is what you deserve. You deserve better, get your stuff together arrange to stay somewhere and never ever look back. Get yourself a nice single girl with no emotional baggage and live happily ever after.

]]> By: CHRIShttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-32809 CHRIS Wed, 28 Sep 2011 17:19:25 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-32809 I've been dating a beautiful single mom with two beautiful girls whom I love to death! We've been together for 8 months now and everything seems really great. But I have an issue dealing with the fact of being the 2nd man in their lives. Sometimes my believes of having a family with kids whom are yours and not having some other guy in your life causes conflicts in my relationship. I really want to make this work. But dnt seem to find the answer yet. Idk if its the philosophy I have my believes of what a family should be etc. I am open for advices. I’ve been dating a beautiful single mom with two beautiful girls whom I love to death! We’ve been together for 8 months now and everything seems really great. But I have an issue dealing with the fact of being the 2nd man in their lives. Sometimes my believes of having a family with kids whom are yours and not having some other guy in your life causes conflicts in my relationship. I really want to make this work. But dnt seem to find the answer yet. Idk if its the philosophy I have my believes of what a family should be etc. I am open for advices.

]]> By: Nick Stanhamhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-27609 Nick Stanham Thu, 23 Jun 2011 19:04:20 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-27609 I would disagree ed, I am certainly not against single mothers, we all are entitled to a past, It's just the ones I have met are extremely selfish, lazy, and only interested in how much you can expand their income. I know that all single parents are not like this as I am very good friends with many. Unfortunately I'm a lot more choosy nowadays. I would disagree ed, I am certainly not against single mothers, we all are entitled to a past, It’s just the ones I have met are extremely selfish, lazy, and only interested in how much you can expand their income.
I know that all single parents are not like this as I am very good friends with many. Unfortunately I’m a lot more choosy nowadays.

]]> By: edhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-27606 ed Thu, 23 Jun 2011 18:23:54 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-27606 Most guys will tell you that single mothers are not worth the time. However I'd say that any guy that says that is probably not worth your time. One of the hardest parts for the guy is the constant communication with the father of the child. No matter haw logical it all seems it will drive men crazy to know that you are so much as talking to somebody you slept with before. This puts a toll on the relationship. We know you have feelings for the other guy, we know he is hot/sexy/insert word here for you to sleep with..... and then you go and talk to him. It's devastating for our ego...which tells us to remove the other male from our lives. For guys there are definite burdens to a mother with child which some may be willing to over come others will not. Plus there is the single mother who is generally very very picky about whom their child has contact with and especially who is allowed to sleep under the same roof. I'd say that the pickiness of the single mother along with the male fear of dating/getting involved with a single mother reduces the dating pool significantly and makes the dating thing very difficult for single mothers. Most guys will tell you that single mothers are not worth the time. However I’d say that any guy that says that is probably not worth your time.

One of the hardest parts for the guy is the constant communication with the father of the child. No matter haw logical it all seems it will drive men crazy to know that you are so much as talking to somebody you slept with before. This puts a toll on the relationship. We know you have feelings for the other guy, we know he is hot/sexy/insert word here for you to sleep with….. and then you go and talk to him. It’s devastating for our ego…which tells us to remove the other male from our lives.

For guys there are definite burdens to a mother with child which some may be willing to over come others will not.

Plus there is the single mother who is generally very very picky about whom their child has contact with and especially who is allowed to sleep under the same roof.

I’d say that the pickiness of the single mother along with the male fear of dating/getting involved with a single mother reduces the dating pool significantly and makes the dating thing very difficult for single mothers.

]]> By: Nick Stanhamhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-26009 Nick Stanham Sun, 20 Feb 2011 21:58:09 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-26009 You really need help Diane, funny how your kids feel the same way about you. Perhaps you are the only perfect one in the world. But thanks for proving my point clearly. You really need help Diane, funny how your kids feel the same way about you. Perhaps you are the only perfect one in the world. But thanks for proving my point clearly.

]]> By: littlevoicehttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-25994 littlevoice Sat, 19 Feb 2011 23:32:18 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-25994 Awww Nick there you go again.........geeezzee do I need to spell things out for you.....dont you ever listen......ok here goes now take note! I have only commented here using both my chat name and my real name, the other posts must be from the other women of your dreams lol I am not ashamed about anything I have done in my life, even the tiny bit I had with you, you can post anything you like, harp on about our epic two and a half years lmao, and act like i'm besotted with you, (just for the record i'm not), define stalking? to stalk you would mean I follow you, ring you camp outside your door send gifts sing to you in the street etc. It was you who contacted me! you asked to be added to my facebook and it was you who sent me photoes of your dog lmao, the only thing I have contacted you with was to help you with one of the other women of your dreams of the time, all the lies you tell will catchup with you like your rape lets chat about that shall we I WAS 15 you told me you were 21 I even went and told your parents for you for christ sake! you take a little bit of our (your women of your dreams) lives and claim it as your own so we/they seemed to have things in common with you, you even told me your girlfriend before me burned you with cigerettes! all lies you burned yourself in front of me!, (maybe your new woman of your dreams could have a chat with your mum so she can see who's telling the truth? mmmm) this will be the last post I leave on here, anything else left on this blog will be one of your other dreamboats, but please anyone wanting to contact me regarding Nick good or bad please e-mail me at exhar@hotmail.com we could have lots to chat about. there is no shame in what we did we all thought we were women of his dreams at the time, (is the new woman of his dreams a sweatpea?) sadly Nick you are blocked, ok so my last word to you Nick is..... try and be yourself this time try showing the real you, it will be the first time you've done that and you never know she might just like you, stop hiding behind us all and be a man........ bye bye Awww Nick there you go again………geeezzee do I need to spell things out for you…..dont you ever listen……ok here goes now take note! I have only commented here using both my chat name and my real name, the other posts must be from the other women of your dreams lol I am not ashamed about anything I have done in my life, even the tiny bit I had with you, you can post anything you like, harp on about our epic two and a half years lmao, and act like i’m besotted with you, (just for the record i’m not), define stalking? to stalk you would mean I follow you, ring you camp outside your door send gifts sing to you in the street etc. It was you who contacted me! you asked to be added to my facebook and it was you who sent me photoes of your dog lmao, the only thing I have contacted you with was to help you with one of the other women of your dreams of the time, all the lies you tell will catchup with you like your rape lets chat about that shall we I WAS 15 you told me you were 21 I even went and told your parents for you for christ sake! you take a little bit of our (your women of your dreams) lives and claim it as your own so we/they seemed to have things in common with you, you even told me your girlfriend before me burned you with cigerettes! all lies you burned yourself in front of me!, (maybe your new woman of your dreams could have a chat with your mum so she can see who’s telling the truth? mmmm) this will be the last post I leave on here, anything else left on this blog will be one of your other dreamboats, but please anyone wanting to contact me regarding Nick good or bad please e-mail me at exhar@hotmail.com we could have lots to chat about. there is no shame in what we did we all thought we were women of his dreams at the time, (is the new woman of his dreams a sweatpea?)
sadly Nick you are blocked, ok so my last word to you Nick is….. try and be yourself this time try showing the real you, it will be the first time you’ve done that and you never know she might just like you, stop hiding behind us all and be a man…….. bye bye

]]> By: Nick Stanhamhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-23865 Nick Stanham Tue, 28 Dec 2010 10:50:17 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-23865 Yeah it's Diane again, to be honest, I can't be bothered any more, just proves my point, don't you think? Yeah it’s Diane again, to be honest, I can’t be bothered any more, just proves my point, don’t you think?

]]> By: Nickhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-23650 Nick Wed, 22 Dec 2010 23:53:59 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/17/do-men-really-care-if-youre-a-single-mom/#comment-23650 Wow, well ok, erm clearly you have the wrong Nick Stanham here. Wow, well ok, erm clearly you have the wrong Nick Stanham here.

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