Comments on: He’s back. http://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/02/hes-back/ Single Mom Dating? Real advice from a real single mom. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 07:59:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Frankiehttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/02/hes-back/#comment-45855 Frankie Sat, 21 Jan 2012 03:12:37 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/hes-back/#comment-45855 Appreciation for this ifnomartoin is over 9000-thank you! Appreciation for this ifnomartoin is over 9000-thank you!

]]> By: mssinglemamahttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/02/hes-back/#comment-269 mssinglemama Tue, 05 Feb 2008 03:41:22 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/hes-back/#comment-269 Thanks Damn It All ... please keep us posted... your input is invaluable as mine is definitely not the only perspective. Thanks Damn It All … please keep us posted… your input is invaluable as mine is definitely not the only perspective.

]]> By: damnitallhttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/02/hes-back/#comment-268 damnitall Mon, 04 Feb 2008 20:07:49 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/hes-back/#comment-268 Randomly found your blog and just wanted to offer kudos to being a cool single and dating mom. I'm in that club too. It's rough, but nice to hear others talk about it. Randomly found your blog and just wanted to offer kudos to being a cool single and dating mom. I’m in that club too. It’s rough, but nice to hear others talk about it.

]]> By: singlemomseekinghttp://mssinglemama.com/2008/01/02/hes-back/#comment-267 singlemomseeking Wed, 02 Jan 2008 05:22:59 +0000 http://mssinglemama.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/hes-back/#comment-267 Thanks for writing about this so openly... there are often so many expectations that we put on ourselves when we have a night "off," but is it really so easy to let go of your child? No. It's great that you are letting your ex go -- and not getting all worked up about his unreliability. I don't know how easy this is for Benjamin -- say, if he thinks that he's going off for the night with his dad, but then his dad decides not to show up?... Good for you for being stable in his life. Thanks for writing about this so openly… there are often so many expectations that we put on ourselves when we have a night “off,” but is it really so easy to let go of your child? No.

It’s great that you are letting your ex go — and not getting all worked up about his unreliability. I don’t know how easy this is for Benjamin — say, if he thinks that he’s going off for the night with his dad, but then his dad decides not to show up?… Good for you for being stable in his life.

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