Comments on: Single Mom Dating Tips, Part 1

By: jokerza

jokerza — Sun, 29 Jan 2012 01:15:32 +0000

Okay lets get this straight. You dont have time for someone who does not chase you, and you will not chase them. A relationship should be mutual. There should not be a giver and a taker. It sounds to me that you are still bitter and that its your way or the highway and nine times out of ten the men will take the highway. Not because you have a child, but its because you want them to invest their heart and soul in you and understand your situation, when you will not acknowledge their situation and the huge shoes you expect them to fill. Your kids are priority number one yes, and any man who questions that is mad, but the true question are; how do you see this new man? (threat or commitment); will you be committed to him as much as you expect him to be committed to you? Will your past experience with men affect this new relationship? ( Often woman want the kind caring loving man, but when he presents himself, she is so hurt and affected by past relationships that she is to scared to invest or take the leap of faith. The men can sense this and either invest less or walk away) And will he be a priority or a distraction?

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By: samantha

samantha — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 00:11:44 +0000

I have been talking to a guy for a few weeks, Just over the phone. He says he is falling for me and talks alot about future plans. He doesnt know I have a 3yr old son. I havent met him yet, and I am meeting him over the weekend. He seems like a great guy and I am only 21 and he is 32. I am hoping if he see’s me and realises how great I am that he will be ok with the whole kid thing:P I am scared he will just leave and I will be devastated as I like him alot.
How do I tell him??? Will he feel I wasnt honest with him???
I mean I have been waiting till we meet, but should I have told him over the phone?
PLEASE HELP!!! SO SCARED!!!

By: SamanthaSwears

SamanthaSwears — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 22:21:49 +0000

I love it! When I got divorced, I was so busy trying to replace "the husband" that I lost sight of the whole process and how fun it is to meet new people and really get to know them. I found a great article when I was googling "how to find a husband" that put it all into focus: http://www.dating-relationship-advice-for-women.c… Take it easy, girl! Have some fun. No more losers. This is your life!

At first I was terrified how it would affect my children, that I had two precious little girls to protect ON TOP OF being sexy and funny and engaging and found myself wondering what kind of a daddy he'd be. The line about dating only the people who make your life happier is the most important!

Slow down girls and get to know a guy WAY BEFORE he even has a chance to meet your children! Only the kings get to come into the castle. You'll be happier and your kids will thank you in the long run by having the best possible role model for how to live a happy life. Thanks!

By: Single MoM

Single MoM — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 05:23:23 +0000

involved at first intil i got to know him as a person myself he . but i had given him my number to a co worker that worked with him and then i seen him the next day and he ask why didnt i just give it to him does taht show him signs that i may not be sure about him because i am just a totally shy girl when it comes to talking to guys.. then he walked out to my car with me and offered to hang out with my kids the first time we would hang out i think thats a little odd of a guy but then i get the feeling he knows i'm a single mom and is maybe just a careing guy coud it be possiable i am only 24 and was 18 when i had my first child and i never dated before the father of my kids was my first boyfriend…very confused on how to take the simple fact that he offered to take the kids out somewhere on a first time meeting

By: SingleMoM

SingleMoM — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 05:22:57 +0000

I'm a single mom of 2 children and i recently gave this guy (stanger) my phone number i've known him from a local gas station for about 4 months or more) and i would talk to him when i would go there which was at least once a day..i just left a 8 year relationship( 3 weeks ago) and didnt shed a tear and nor do i even care to see the ex if it wasnt for my children he doesnt even really do much or visit with either, is it to early to start dating already without the children

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